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  • hugs to you.

    punk rock mom’s last blog post..How I Met PR Dad

    April 30, 2008
  • I am so sorry. Hugs to you, John, and sweet little Braden.

    Amanda’s last blog post..Tuesdays with Dorie – Fluted Polenta and Ricotta Cake

    April 30, 2008
  • I’m sorry, Lotus. I’ve been down a very similar road that ended a little differently but still the same. It sucks. Hugs.

    Maggie’s Mind’s last blog post..The A Part of the Q & A Part One

    April 30, 2008
  • so sorry for your loss.

    a twitter friend & miscarriage/mommyblogger.

    aliza at babyfruit’s last blog post..Sweat But No Blood

    April 30, 2008
  • Ohhhh… I’m so sorry. Hugs.

    seven’s last blog post..I Have Always Found This Hilarious.

    April 30, 2008
  • I ache for you. Anything I can do; you know where to find me. Like, show you my BOOBIES or ANYTHING.

    Mr Lady’s last blog post..Psst…

    April 30, 2008
  • I’m so sorry to hear of your loss. :(

    Walking With Scissors’s last blog post..A Story With no point or Purpose. Just ‘Cause.

    April 30, 2008
  • Oh, no. I am so, so sorry for your loss.

    Megan’s last blog post..A real IM conversation with my mother

    April 30, 2008
  • I’m very, very sorry. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. You’re a great woman, and you have a great man by your side. You will make it through it.

    I’m sending you all the hugs I can give.

    Gabriel’s last blog post..WW#20 – Gardening with Mom (and Dad)

    April 30, 2008
  • oh sweetie, i’m so sorry. i’ve been there and i know the ache.

    i’m sending hugs.

    the planet of janet’s last blog post..How I met my honey … Well, actually, more like how we got engaged

    April 30, 2008
  • I am so sorry, sweet girl.

    Hugs to you.

    xo ~K

    karla ~ looking towards heaven’s last blog post..Setting myself up for some public humiliation

    April 30, 2008
  • Just, Sorry.

    Xbox4NappyRash’s last blog post..Allez Les Bleus!

    April 30, 2008
  • Wishing you and your family well in this time of hurt. Many hugs.

    Violet The Verbose’s last blog post..Depressed and Scared

    April 30, 2008
  • Taz

    aww hun..

    biggest hugs to you..

    thinking of you..

    Taz’s last blog post..27 Weeks Old

    April 30, 2008
  • Oh my lovely. I feel your pain. I ache for you. Nothing anyone can say can take this hurt away but know that everyone is here for you. Shout to the universe how unfair it is and then hold your beautiful boy and rejoice in him.

    <3

    Kelley’s last blog post..You just lost the game.

    April 30, 2008
  • river

    Bugger. Buggerbuggerbugger…and Damn!!

    April 30, 2008
  • I’m so sorry. Hugs to you – take care of yourself.

    Rachael’s last blog post..Friend 2: Sati

    April 30, 2008
  • Oh Lotus, My heart aches for you.
    Hugs and prayers for your dear family.

    Kara – down to earth mommy’s last blog post..And the secret ingredient is…..

    April 30, 2008
  • We <3 you. Take your time, we’ll all be waiting patiently for your return.

    ::Hugs::

    Shannymar’s last blog post..Wordless Wednesday #19-Day at the pool

    April 30, 2008
  • We <3 you. Take your time, we’ll all be waiting patiently for your return.

    ::Hugs::

    April 30, 2008
  • We <3 you. Take your time, we’ll all be waiting patiently for your return.

    ::Hugs::..

    April 30, 2008
  • We <3 you. Take your time, we’ll all be waiting patiently for your return.

    ::Hugs::..

    April 30, 2008
  • I am so very very sorry for you Lotus, and your family. You have my best wishes while you take the time to come to terms with your grief.

    Lilacspecs’s last blog post..I Might Join Your Century But Only As a Doubtful Guest

    April 30, 2008
  • I just want to wrap you up and feed you chocolate and stroke your hand. Seriously.

    This shit sucks.

    xxx

    Veronica’s last blog post..The Taste Of Bitterness

    April 30, 2008
  • Michelle

    I’m so sorry.
    I pray you and your family can grieve how you need to for as long as you need to. No need to hurry through this on our account.

    April 30, 2008
  • Michelle

    Make that…please don’t hurry through this on our account

    April 30, 2008
  • I am so sorry to hear that. I hope you and your family can go through this difficult time.

    Love and hugs to you.

    Andie Summerkiss’s last blog post..Math and Logic

    April 30, 2008
  • I’m so very sorry for your loss. My heart, thoughts and prayers will be with you and John during this difficult time. Take care of you.

    AnnD’s last blog post..Still needing some neutrophils and prayers!

    April 30, 2008
  • I am so sorry. I hope you three can come together stronger than ever by supporting one another through this heartache. Plus you have the well wishes of loads of strangers.

    witchypoo’s last blog post..Today Was Boobie Sandwich Day

    April 30, 2008
  • I am so, so sorry for your loss.

    Beth_C’s last blog post..Works For Me Wednesday – Jalapeno Popper Spread

    April 30, 2008
  • I’m very sorry hon. Many hugs to you.

    Bettina’s last blog post..Screw Up Tuesday.

    April 30, 2008
  • Z

    I am so sorry. I hope your day consists of lots of holding and being held, and doing whatever you and your family need to get through this…

    Z’s last blog post..Impressions

    April 30, 2008
  • I’m so so sorry sweetie. :(

    April 30, 2008
  • I am so very sorry. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry.

    ALISON’s last blog post..Sunday in The Park

    April 30, 2008
  • HRH

    I am so sorry. This is one case where I can say I do know how bad that can be. Be sad. It is OK. I am always sad every year in April because I had a miscarriage on 4-4-04. I will never forget it. I will always wonder what if. I will always dream for what wasn’t meant to be. I am so sorry for your loss.

    HRH’s last blog post..Holly throws herself under the alternative-fuel bus…

    April 30, 2008
  • Oh Lotus, I’m so sorry. May you find strength and peace very soon. xoxo

    Karen Sugarpants’s last blog post..Sun

    April 30, 2008
  • crap…I’m so sorry, it does hurt. I had a miscarriage between my 1st and 2nd sons, very early on, but I went on to have #2 and then #3 without incident (unless you count early deliveries). You’ll need the time to grieve but soon you can try again. Good luck.

    Terri’s last blog post..30 days, 30 people: Wendy

    April 30, 2008
  • Philly

    So sorry to hear about your loss.
    I’ve been there and I know how devastating it was.
    Take care of yourself

    April 30, 2008
  • I’m so very sorry. I had a son in between my other 2 sons that was born still @ 39 weeks~I know the pain of losing a child as well. It is the worst feeling in the world. Just turn to & support each other & depend on each other in every way you need to. Big hugs to you & your family.

    Connie’s last blog post..THREE @ 4:09 PM

    April 30, 2008
  • amy

    I am so sorry for this. Just know that so many women are wrapping you round in their minds and hearts. xo

    amy’s last blog post..Im stronger than the monster beneath your bed/Smarter than the tricks played on your heart

    April 30, 2008
  • Law Student Hot Mama

    I’m so sorry for your loss! My thoughts are with you and your lovely little family!

    Law Student Hot Mama’s last blog post..Since When Did the Discovery Health Channel Become the New Coney Island Freak Show?

    April 30, 2008
  • I’m so sorry, honey. Thinking of you.

    Jeanette’s last blog post..Weekly Winners

    April 30, 2008
  • so sorry. “”hugs”” kathleen

    so grateful to be mormon’s last blog post..meme — seven random oddball things about me — wanna play?

    April 30, 2008
  • I’ve been there too, Lotus. Sending prayers and comforting thoughts your way.

    Much love to you and your family!

    Malia’s last blog post..The Dresses

    April 30, 2008
  • I’m so sorry for what you’re going through. I will be praying for you. Unfortunately, I too know the devastation….

    Precious, tiny little one
    You’ll always be to me
    So perfect, pure and innocent –
    Part of heaven’s family.

    We dreamed of you and your life
    And all that it would be.
    We waited and longed for you to come
    And join our family.

    We never had the chance to play,
    To laugh, to rock, to wiggle.
    We long to hold you, touch you now
    And listen to you giggle.

    I’ll always be your mother,
    He’ll always be your dad.
    You’ll always be our child,
    The child that we had.

    Now you’re gone…but yet you’re here
    We sense you everywhere.
    You’re our sorrow and our joy,
    There’s love in every tear.

    Just know our love goes deep and strong,
    We’ll forget you never –
    The child we had but never had,
    And yet will have forever.

    Mandy’s last blog post..Ah, cleanliness

    April 30, 2008
  • Ree

    I’m sorry Lotus. {{hugs}}

    Ree’s last blog post..Brothers

    April 30, 2008
  • Rebecca

    I’m so sorry.

    April 30, 2008
  • Oh, Lotus. I can’t tell you how sorry I am. Maybe your Swan and our Swan are up there, together, making friends with each other. And waiting.

    Lou Lohman’s last blog post..introspection – why I blog

    April 30, 2008
  • I apologize that I normally just lurk here, but I am so very sorry for your loss and for your pain. I lost my little one on Easter this year, and it was the worst kind of hurt.

    *hug* for you and yours.

    April 30, 2008
  • Lotus – I am sooo sorry for your loss. I am in the process of trying to heal from our miscarriage too (4-13-2008), and it hasn’t been easy but it is getting a little easier every day. I know that sounds horrible and maybe even impossible right now, but even though it’s only been a little over two short weeks for us, there has been much grieving and much healing. We will never forget (no, never!), but we are learning how to live again. I was 10-weeks exactly when it happened. E-mail me if you want.

    Karen’s last blog post..Owwwww!

    April 30, 2008
  • I’m so very sorry. I won’t say I know how it feels, because I don’t know how if feels for you, but I know it hurt me when I had my three losses. Thinking of you.

    April 30, 2008
  • I’m so sorry for your loss. My heart is breaking for you.

    Krystyn’s last blog post..Tuesday Toddler Tales

    April 30, 2008
  • Proud theatre mom

    Thinking of you and john and saying a prayer. So So sorry for your loss.

    Proud theatre mom’s last blog post..How I met my honey

    April 30, 2008
  • I am so, so sorry.

    *pixie*’s last blog post..environments

    April 30, 2008
  • OH, WOW. That is just horrible. I’ll be thinking of you and sending some good thoughts and positive energy your way.

    MommyCosm’s last blog post..Wordless Wednesday or My Other Two Kids

    April 30, 2008
  • kay

    no words can express what I feel for you and your family now…you’re all in my prayers. xoxo

    April 30, 2008
  • Oh, Lotus. I am so sorry for your loss. :(

    We love you.

    We’ll be here, waiting patiently, for you to return, whenever that is.

    And we love you… but I already said that.

    Rebecca

    Rebecca’s last blog post..Our second anniversary

    April 30, 2008
  • Deb

    Oh Lotus,

    My heart is breaking for you. I am so so sorry to hear about what you and John are going through. Don’t worry about us, you just do what you need to so that you can grieve appropriately. Thinking of you.

    Deb’s last blog post..Better late than never

    April 30, 2008
  • Lotus-

    I am so saddened to hear of your loss. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. I pray that you will have peace from God that passes understanding and that you will be blessed as you mourn your loss.

    Josh

    The Lord is my rock and my fortress and my deliverer; My God, my strength, in whom I will trust; My shield and the horn of my salvation, my stronghold. psm 18

    Josh’s last blog post..TV Turn Off Week

    April 30, 2008
  • I am so sorry.

    I had a miscarriage a couple of years before Aidan so I know your dismay.

    A Jill of All Trades’s last blog post..May 4, 2002

    April 30, 2008
  • Angie Harrison

    Lotus, I’m so sorry. I am sending up prayers for you. I know these are all just words, but you are loved by so many and we are all here for you.

    April 30, 2008
  • I too know that pain. I am so sorry. Hugs to you and your family.

    Sarah’s last blog post..Weather

    April 30, 2008
  • Much much love.
    I’m so sorry.

    A Whole Lot of Nothing’s last blog post..Wordless 4.30.8

    April 30, 2008
  • Ali

    I’m so sorry Lotus and family.

    Ali’s last blog post..featured sh*t!

    April 30, 2008
  • I am so sorry.

    I had a miscarriage a couple of years before Aidan so I know your dismay.

    A Jill of All Trades’s last blog post..I’ve always known George and his posse were dicks.

    April 30, 2008
  • Oh Lotus, I am so sorry. I’ve been through it a couple of times so I know there is nothing I can say to make you feel better. Just know I am thinking about you and so very sorry for your loss. Take care of you.

    Michelle’s last blog post..13 is going to be ugly

    April 30, 2008
  • I’m so sorry Lotus. Please let me know if there is anything I can do.

    Amy @ Milk Breath & Margaritas’s last blog post..I’m Hanging Around the Watercooler With BOSSY

    April 30, 2008
  • Hockeyman

    I am so sorry to hear your news. Your family is in my prayers and please let us know if you need anything.

    Hockeyman’s last blog post..Weekend Acceptances

    April 30, 2008
  • Oh, I am so sorry.

    I know those words are the same as many other people’s, but please know I mean them and am thinking of you and your family.

    Busy Mom’s last blog post..Out of Context Monday

    April 30, 2008
  • So sorry to hear this news. Hold on to those around you and let them love you very much.

    Crystal’s last blog post..Part 4 is in draft, I promise

    April 30, 2008
  • I’m so sorry for your loss. Please take care of yourself.

    alejna’s last blog post..decoding real estate listings: a helpful glossary

    April 30, 2008
  • AMomTwoBoys

    Loves, Hugs, Kisses…take your time to grieve. We’ll be here when you’re ready to come back.

    April 30, 2008
  • I’m sorry, Lotus. Hugs and love to you.

    Hawt & Bothered’s last blog post..Naughty Mama Tip O’ The Day 042008

    April 30, 2008
  • I am so sorry. I had a very brief pregnancy in October, and I know that helpless feeling as you watch it bleed away. I hope you find all the comfort you need. You are not alone.

    Veronica Mitchell’s last blog post..Works-for-Me Wednesday: Brushing the Kids’ Teeth

    April 30, 2008
  • Oh I’m so sorry. I will be praying for you.

    Junebug’s last blog post..Wordless Wednesday-Reflections

    April 30, 2008
  • I’m so sorry to hear that, Lotus. I won’t write any colorful attempts to cheer you up – because quite honestly, that sucks. And I won’t tell you about my own experiences…cuz you don’t care right now. But as Veronica says – you are not alone. My prayers are with you. :O)

    Colleen’s last blog post..Too tired…

    April 30, 2008
  • Dana

    I am sorry for the loss. Take care.

    April 30, 2008
  • I’m so sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

    SherE1’s last blog post..Are they freestyling?

    April 30, 2008
  • Oh sweet thing….I’ve been there. It hurts, I know.

    I wish that words would ease the pain but for now, just know that the comfort of all your friends are surrounding you with love and prayers.

    hugs all around! Wish I leaved in Nashville, to give you a real hug!

    April 30, 2008
  • I am so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family…

    April 30, 2008
  • I am hugging you, I have been there and I know how sad you are right now. Kiss hug kiss to you.

    Sonia’s last blog post..In a World, Where Prom is the Biggest Night Ever

    April 30, 2008
  • Lotus– I wish I was there to make you tea. We all love you. Take as much time as you need.

    Hydes

    Hydes Like Us’s last blog post..Because I’m the Mom.

    April 30, 2008
  • Melanie

    I only found your blog a couple days ago. I know that nothing I say will help ease your pain and I don’t know you personally but I am truly, truly saddened by your loss. I am so sorry…

    April 30, 2008
  • I’m sorry. I’ve been there as well. Just know that you are not alone. I will pray for you and your family.

    Laura’s last blog post..Wordless Wednesday

    April 30, 2008
  • {{{Giant Hugs}}} to you and your family. I’m so very sorry.

    Shannie’s last blog post..Ahhh, The Smell of Clean…

    April 30, 2008
  • Kristin Jacobs

    I am so, so sorry for your loss…you and your family are in my prayers

    April 30, 2008
  • Angie S.

    Lotus I’m so sorry. I have no idea the pain and hurt you are feeling, but please know that you (and John and Braden) are in our prayers and our love.

    April 30, 2008
  • Bless your heart and those you love.

    Madness’s last blog post..Wordless Wednesday

    April 30, 2008
  • Carissa

    I am so very sorry.

    April 30, 2008
  • Oh, Lotus. I’m so sorry. A miscarriage contributed greatly to the span between our boys (6 years). One thing to remember is to not rush back into things again. There’s no schedule to life and no timeline to keep. Take care.

    Gordo’s last blog post..Stephen! Go to your room and clean up that mess!

    April 30, 2008
  • Joe

    I am so very sorry to hear this. We went through this when we were expecting our fourth. It was so very difficult. For both of us. All my best to you and your husband.

    April 30, 2008
  • SO Sorry to hear this!!! Hugs to you!

    Daphne (One Mom in Alabama)’s last blog post..T-Ball Game #5

    April 30, 2008
  • MP

    I am so very sorry my heart aches for you…as you take the time you need know that you have many internet friends sending you well wishes and prayers…
    xo

    MP’s last blog post..American Idol – Neil Diamond night

    April 30, 2008
  • If I were within a 100 mile radius, I would bring you a shoulder, a vat of ice cream, and my tears to share with you.

    I really am so sorry.

    The Other Dawn’s last blog post..Willing

    April 30, 2008
  • I’m so sorry for your loss. No words can comfort, but I’m sending you virtual hugs. Hold your family tight, take the time you need. We’ll be here when you get back ready to give you love and laughter again.

    Sadie’s last blog post..Random Bits…

    April 30, 2008
  • mamafabulosity

    Wow, look at all these comments! So many people love you. I hope that helps a little.
    I know what it feels like to lose someone you love so much even though you’ve never officialy met. I still carry that pain with me and I miss Cameron every day, but it does get easier over time.

    mamafabulosity’s last blog post..Seven Random Things

    April 30, 2008
  • I’m so sorry to hear this news. This is the second time in a couple days that a blogger I love reading has announced a miscarriage (Finslippy is the other one). My condolences to you and your family as you grieve for your loss. And my hopes that you will find some comfort in knowing that you are loved.

    Jaynee’s last blog post..TV: American Idol Top Five – What Is Paula Smoking?

    April 30, 2008
  • justmylife

    {{{{{HUGS}}}}}}} I am so sorry! Thoughts and prayers are sent out for you and your family.

    justmylife’s last blog post..Just sharing……

    April 30, 2008
  • oh god hon i am so sorry. i will be thinking good thoughts for you.

    jill’s last blog post..Safe landing, upgrades…

    April 30, 2008
  • I’m so sorry, Lotus. We all love you dearly.

    Makeshift Mama’s last blog post..Ahhh!

    April 30, 2008
  • Rose

    I’m new to your blog, but I wanted to tell you that I am so sorry to hear your sad and heartbreaking news!
    Having been there myself recently, I know nothing anyone says will make the hurt go away. Just know that you have a lot of people praying for you and your family, my heart goes out to you all.
    Hug your little one extra tight and keep your husband near, family helps at this time.

    April 30, 2008
  • Thoughts and prayers are with you all. Hug your little one tight!

    Christy’s last blog post..On the way to dance class

    April 30, 2008
  • I’m sorry. I don’t have any other comfort to give but know that I’m thinking of you.

    donna’s last blog post..Is This the New Math?

    April 30, 2008
  • *hugs* I am so sorry for your loss Lotus. Like many others have said take all the time you need we will be here when you are ready to return. Sending healing vibes and energy your way

    Jess’s last blog post..Worldless Wednesday

    April 30, 2008
  • Susan

    Aw…I’m so sorry :( .

    April 30, 2008
  • I am so sorry for your loss. we went through a similar experience in November. Hold your son as tight as you can, he will help you get through this horrible time.

    Christine’s last blog post..Don’t F* with the Pregnant Lady

    April 30, 2008
  • Kay

    I am so so sorry Lotus. I have been down this road 3 times and each experience is mind numbingly different but still such a great loss.
    My heart is with you honey. :(

    Kay’s last blog post..Hump Day

    April 30, 2008
  • I know it doesn’t help – but I just had 3 in a row and am now due in 4 weeks. Hang in there – hug and cry when you need to and hold that precious kid you’ve got. That will help. Try again when you are ready.

    Karmyn R’s last blog post..CONTEST! Guess the Birth Date!! CONTEST!

    April 30, 2008
  • Aww, hon, I’m so sorry for you loss.
    You take time to heal and be with your family.

    *hugs*

    Sarah’s last blog post..Wove, Twue Wove

    April 30, 2008
  • Ashleigh

    So sorry. You and your swan are loved.

    Ashleigh’s last blog post..To thine own self be true…sometimes.

    April 30, 2008
  • aw, I’m so sorry lotus. please, let yourself mourn. I’ve been there too many times and I know that this is one swan you don’t want to put away.

    Hugs and hot water bottles.

    zoeyjane’s last blog post..And it’s Already Starting

    April 30, 2008
  • Oh Lotus. I’m so very, very sad for you.

    April 30, 2008
  • Jesus, I’m so sorry. Please ignore the email I just sent you. Bad timing.
    My thoughts are with you.

    Tonya’s last blog post..12 Blessed Hours

    April 30, 2008
  • Richard

    My wife and I had the same sad experience a few years back. I am so sorry.

    April 30, 2008
  • Sorry my comment showed up a bunch of times, I kept getting an error!

    April 30, 2008
  • Tommi

    I’m so sorry for your families loss. I hope your healing is fast and complete as it can ever be. May you always remember the precious time you spent with your littlest one.

    April 30, 2008
  • I’m so sad for you, lady. Just crying big, floppy tears for you and John. Phil and I know this so well, and you were there for me when this happened to me.

    You know where to find me. And Amanda.

    imaginary binky’s last blog post..Singing for our supper

    April 30, 2008
  • I am so sorry for your loss…Hugs to you.

    Kellyology’s last blog post..Are You My Mother?

    April 30, 2008
  • Reading your post brings back all the emotion from my baby son who didn’t make it. The hurt doesn’t go away, but know that many other women have had this experience and we all sympathize. Nothing can make it better, but know that you aren’t alone.

    Steph’s last blog post..Pesca Rant Reason #5

    April 30, 2008
  • Worthmore

    My heart, my mind, and my prayers go out to you and your family.

    April 30, 2008
  • Kat

    I’m so sorry, Lotus.

    There is this book – “Let’s have healthy children”, by Adele Davis, which you can order on Amazon. There is nutritional info in there which a friend of mine who miscarried a number of times started to follow and it got her body good and strong to carry a baby, which she was finally able to do. Might help.

    xoxo

    April 30, 2008
  • I’m so sorry to hear this has happened to you. I went through this a few months ago. Our thoughts and support are with you and we’ll see you when you’re ready to return.

    Jessica’s last blog post..I thought it was a myth

    April 30, 2008
  • Amy

    I don’t know what to say ((Lotus)).

    My thoughts are with your lovely family during this difficult time.

    Amy’s last blog post..Take a Looksie

    April 30, 2008
  • Oh dear…I have lots to say but I know no words are of comfort now…I’m so sorry…

    go cry…go scream…go vent your frustrations and pain….as you fold another swan…*sigh*

    Angeline’s last blog post..Importance of Child Seats

    April 30, 2008
  • I know nothing I can say will make the hurt go away, but just know that I am saying a prayer for you and your family.

    wright’s last blog post..Wordless Wednesday – Finally

    April 30, 2008
  • So sorry sweetheart :( All my love xxx

    Marylin’s last blog post..Quiet for a few days…

    April 30, 2008
  • I’m so sorry.

    Carrie’s last blog post..Lazy, lazy days

    April 30, 2008
  • Lotus, I am really sorry to read this. I’m so so sorry.

    April 30, 2008
  • So very very sorry Lotus. You’ll be in my thoughts.

    Candy’s last blog post..No, it’s not a skin tag!

    April 30, 2008
  • I am so very sorry. Hug your boys and keep them close. Prayers for your family.

    Kathryn’s last blog post..The Story Of Us

    April 30, 2008
  • I am so sorry. I’ll be thinking about you.

    Erin’s last blog post..New Camera Pictures

    April 30, 2008
  • Oh Lotus, I’m so so very sorry!
    HUGE ((HUGS)) across the seas
    :(

    I’ve been there a few times, so I know what you’re going through. :(

    Jenty’s last blog post..Wordless Wednesday – Wild cosmos

    April 30, 2008
  • So sorry. (((HUGS)))

    JenniferS^N’s last blog post..Ze plants, Ze plants…..lol

    April 30, 2008
  • I’m so sorry. I’ve had four miscarriages so I do understand but it doesn’t make it any easier I know. I’ll be praying for you today.

    April 30, 2008
  • Lotus, I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you, John and Braden.

    Suzanne’s last blog post..Mario Kart Wii

    April 30, 2008
  • I’m so sorry! Take as long as you need – we’ll still be here when you’re ready.

    Average Jane’s last blog post..Average Jane Goes Out Walking

    April 30, 2008
  • I’m so sorry, I’d give you a big hug if I was nearer to you. and a shoulder to cry on.

    Jennifer A’s last blog post..Things are changing around here

    April 30, 2008
  • Sending you healing energy and hoping there is enlightenment and peace in your folding.

    Kecia’s last blog post..Latest dance craze

    April 30, 2008
  • Damn honey. I’m so, so sorry. :(

    Mommy Cracked’s last blog post..Bloggy Giveaway Time

    April 30, 2008
  • feener

    i am sorry for your loss. been there, it is not easy, but you can take comfort in your son.

    feener’s last blog post..Gym or Mcdonalds

    April 30, 2008
  • I’m so sorry. We’ll be here for you when you feel like talking.

    Lottifish’s last blog post..When You Want To Leave

    April 30, 2008
  • Oh, no. Oh I am so, so sorry.

    alala’s last blog post..What good does a Duce do?

    April 30, 2008
  • I feel for you. In my heart.

    xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

    April 30, 2008
  • I am so sorry. Hugs to you and yours.

    April 30, 2008
  • lee

    I am so sorry. absolute huge hugs!!

    April 30, 2008
  • I am SO sorry. Will pray and light candles for you and yours.

    ~Leaving a great big hug for you all~

    PandoraWilde’s last blog post..RbW: The Tallahassee Edition

    April 30, 2008
  • Oh Lotus – I don’t have any words…I am so damn sorry. Take all the time you need – we will all be out here sending you the best love and wishes until you are ready to come back.

    {{{great big hug}}}

    Tasina’s last blog post..GraphJam

    April 30, 2008
  • I am so sorry – I know the pain and I am sorry you two have to go thru this.

    VHMPrincess’s last blog post..well well well…

    April 30, 2008
  • I am so sorry for your loss…Hugs to you, your husband and darling boy!

    Lulu’s last blog post..Wordless Wednesday #5…

    April 30, 2008
  • So sorry. You and your family are in my prayers. Hugs!

    Sunshine Mom’s last blog post..Out of the Mouth of Babes

    April 30, 2008
  • Becky

    I’m so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

    April 30, 2008
  • You are a wonderful mother to Braden and I know you had so much love already for the next baby. I’m so sorry for your loss. I pray that you will find peace at this horribly difficult time.

    Barb’s last blog post..13 jobs is a lot, huh?

    April 30, 2008
  • That just plain stinks.

    May Braden help you both to cut little square pieces of paper to make your swans and heal.

    Jenski’s last blog post..So cute it makes my uterus hurt

    April 30, 2008
  • This saddens us all who were excited for you.

    :::Big bear hugs:::

    Mrs. F’s last blog post..How I Met My Honey

    April 30, 2008
  • I am so sorry for your loss. I am frequent visitor and infrequent commenter. Just wanted you to know that I am praying for you and your family.

    Jessica’s last blog post..When hippie goes wrong

    April 30, 2008
  • I am so, so sorry. I’ve been through this twice, and I remember that profound ache in my heart so vividly. My heart goes out to you, and I pray for comfort and peace to come swiftly to you.

    Many, many hugs, my friend.

    anne’s last blog post..belly monday: 23 weeks, wednesday edition

    April 30, 2008
  • Karleigh

    I have no idea how you must be feeling right now as I have never been in this situation. I wish I could be there right now to hold you, but I cannot. I know this is a difficult, and I say this to you because I know you and I’m sure you already know this, but God has a plan. I pray that your sadness passes and that God will grant you understanding and comfort. I understand if you will not be ready for visitors and would like me to refrain from coming. I’m here for you, Lowty.

    <3K

    April 30, 2008
  • I’m so sorry to hear of your loss.

    You have lots of healing to do—come back to blogging when you are good and ready!

    God holds you and yours right now!

    Much love and hugs!

    Allison (aka AngelGal)’s last blog post..Wordless Wednesday #3 – First in 5 Years!

    April 30, 2008
  • Oh, Sugar. I’m so, so sorry.

    daysgoby’s last blog post..crescendo

    April 30, 2008
  • I am so sorry…..hug that sweet little boy and yo’ baby’s daddy. That is all that is right in this world now while you are in the midst of your swan.

    tommie’s last blog post..Thursday 13…..#38….the letter R

    April 30, 2008
  • sorry for your loss Lotus. i can’t imagine how to handle something like that. i know you can make it through, you are a very strong woman.

    April 30, 2008
  • Stephaine

    Hugs and prayers for you all!

    I am so sorry…..

    April 30, 2008
  • Oh, I’m so sorry. I’ve been there. It’s a terrible place to be. ~xoxo

    Tootsie Farklepants’s last blog post..Aside from Home it’s Where I Spend the Most Time

    April 30, 2008
  • I am so, so sorry to hear this news.

    Christie’s last blog post..hometown love

    May 01, 2008
  • Oh honey. I am SO SO sorry to read these words. :( Thinking of you.

    Lightening’s last blog post..RSS Awareness Day

    May 01, 2008
  • I am so very sorry for you.
    xoxo

    cyndy’s last blog post..Mantras – Update

    May 01, 2008
  • gareth

    we desperatly feel for you, jayne and i had 3 misscarriages before darcy, and bled through darcy’s pregnancy, she is our miracle, our thoughts are with you and the family at this time,
    all the best !

    May 01, 2008
  • I can’t ecen imagine your pain. Our prayers are with you.

    Shannon’s last blog post..Wordy Wednesday-SIXTEEN!

    May 01, 2008
  • Oh Lottus, I am so very sorry for y’all’s loss. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

    HipMarye’s last blog post..Oh Dam

    May 01, 2008
  • Oh Hon,

    I’ve been there too. 3 times. Crap. Just {hugs}

    Greta’s last blog post..Determining the Sex of Your Baby

    May 01, 2008
  • Lotus, you and your boys are in my prayers. I can’t imagine the pain – my heart aches for you.

    Jenny from Mommin’ It Up!’s last blog post..Bob the Builder Needs to GET A ROOM

    May 01, 2008
  • Oh sweet friend, I am sorry for your loss. I will be thinking of you and praying for you all. ((HUGS))

    Secret Agent Mama’s last blog post..Wordless Wednesday

    May 01, 2008
  • Ahhh, love…so sorry! Having been down this road far too many times, my heart goes out to you. Hold your little precious one, and wrap your man around you, and be well, as we all send you love. xx

    mountainmama’s last blog post..Weekly Winners, Sunday Meme

    May 01, 2008
  • Oh Lotus… I don’t know what to say.

    Thinking of you…..

    autumn dahlia’s last blog post..Wordless Wednesday

    May 01, 2008
  • So sorry to hear this, Lotus. Take a break, and feel better. Will be here when you are ready.

    Adena’s last blog post..Next thing to fear: Cans

    May 01, 2008
  • I’m so sorry.
    You’re in my thoughts and prayers this week.

    camdunson’s last blog post..Once Upon a Time – Like Last Month

    May 01, 2008
  • Amy

    What sad news, I am so sorry. Big hugs to you all!

    Amy’s last blog post..“How I met my honey!”

    May 01, 2008
  • i’m so sorry….
    i’ll be thinking of you …
    *hugs*

    mah-meee’s last blog post..Wordless Wednesday – Dancing Queen

    May 01, 2008
  • I’m so sorry for your loss. Take all the time away from blogging that you need – now is not the time to entertain us.

    jen zug’s last blog post..On being sick for a whole month…

    May 01, 2008
  • Oh, dear. I’m so terribly sorry to hear this tragic news. I’m sending hugs your way. There are no words to that can take away this pain. I’ve been there. I remember that the grief had to come and go on it’s own time.

    dana’s last blog post..Let’s Catch Up, Shall We?

    May 01, 2008
  • ((((HUGS))))) I am so sorry that had to happen. I hope you get all the hugs from family and friends you need….

    May 01, 2008
  • I am so very sorry to hear this. Take care of yourself and I hope you are able to find some peace.

    Kelly’s last blog post..Love Thursday: Where are They Now?

    May 01, 2008
  • Oh Lotus.
    My heart and my prayers to you and yours.
    Much love and bunches of hugs.

    rachel’s last blog post..God Saw

    May 01, 2008
  • I’m so very sorry.

    tanya25m’s last blog post..My Daughter Made The Front Page Of The Local Newspaper…

    May 01, 2008
  • OH, I am so sorry. I too have been down this road. It won’t make you feel any better, only time will do that, but know that it happens far too often…

    Take care.

    Maureen’s last blog post..The Elderly Parade

    May 01, 2008
  • Bri

    I’ve been there. I’m so sorry.

    ((hugs))

    Bri’s last blog post..My Very Own Episode of 24

    May 01, 2008
  • So so sorry.
    It sucks.

    In the Trenches of Mommyhood’s last blog post..I Wanna Be a Cowboy…

    May 01, 2008
  • I am so incredibly sorry for your loss.

    Karla’s last blog post..Uphill both ways

    May 01, 2008
  • I am so sorry. I hope you find comfort in the arms of your family.

    May 01, 2008
  • I’m so sorry…

    Laura’s last blog post..Thursday Thirteen #17

    May 01, 2008
  • My dear Lotus….praying that God wraps you and your family in his arms and gives you all the strength you need at this time. I am so very sorry….

    HappyCampers’s last blog post..Friday Fill-In

    May 01, 2008
  • I am so so sorry for your loss Lotus.
    I’ll be thinking of you…

    Don Mills Diva’s last blog post..Satisfying beauty

    May 01, 2008
  • One of the few times I’ve had to say how much I feel your pain. Been there, done that–we’re here for you if you need to write to your Swan.

    loveyh’s last blog post..SAHM vs Working Moms: Why The Hate?

    May 01, 2008
  • Oh hun…I’m so sad for you guys. :-(

    Becky’s last blog post..Where do these people COME from?!

    May 01, 2008
  • I am so sincerely sorry. I know that pain and my heart aches for you. Please know thoughts are swirling all around you.

    MamaGeek’s last blog post..Raindrop Reflections

    May 01, 2008
  • Oh love. I’m so very sorry.

    ~JJ!’s last blog post..Beautiful Mourning

    May 01, 2008
  • i can’t even imagine how you must feel but i still wanted to throw my hugs into the ring.

    tatiana’s last blog post..NOTE TO COUNTERS: THIS COUNT AS ONE TOWARDS THE MAKEUPS

    May 01, 2008
  • So sorry darling! Been down that road before myself. Get your tight hugs in!

    Robinella’s last blog post..Jay Robb’s Fat Burning Diet

    May 01, 2008
  • You are in my thoughts. So sorry for your loss. :(

    Frances’s last blog post..This is what I do instead of studying.

    May 01, 2008
  • ImpostorMom

    So sorry for your loss, hugs…

    ImpostorMom’s last blog post..They once were my babies

    May 01, 2008
  • Jessica

    I’m so sorry for your loss!

    May 01, 2008
  • tiff

    I am so sad for you, my friend.
    I will be thinking of you and your sweet family

    May 01, 2008
  • I am so sorry. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

    Bethany’s last blog post..As If The Post Partum Depression Wasn’t Bad Enough…

    May 01, 2008
  • I’m so sorry. Sooo so so sorry. I hate it that this happened to you. I’ll be praying for you.

    Fern’s last blog post..one heck of an april fool’s prank

    May 01, 2008
  • Sorry for the loss. I will say a prayer.

    blogversary’s last blog post..thoughts on the uninsured

    May 01, 2008
  • I’m am so very sorry, Lotus. Praying for you.

    Claire in CA, USA’s last blog post..A very interesting announcement

    May 01, 2008
  • Eve

    Lotus – I’m sitting here crying for your loss and my own memories. I think miscarriage is the most unfair thing that can happen to a family. I hope your heart heals soon. ((HUGS))

    Eve’s last blog post..Looking at the Snake

    May 01, 2008
  • :( So so sorry. We’ll be here when you’re ready to come back.

    Lyrics of My Life’s last blog post..Gute Nacht!

    May 01, 2008
  • Oh Sweetheart.. love and hugs to you both..xxxx

    frogpondsrock’s last blog post..Mystery Object?????

    May 02, 2008
  • […] Lotus would agree. […]

    May 02, 2008
  • Oh honey, I am soo sorry! Take all the time you need to heal! **HUGS**

    irunwithscissors’s last blog post..Give it a rest already….

    May 02, 2008
  • Kim

    Lotus.. I am so sorry. I can’t begine to imagine the pain. Sending hugs to you and John.

    Kim’s last blog post..What Moms think about good Dads

    May 02, 2008
  • Oh Lotus. I’m so very, very sorry.

    A Lil’ Irish Lass’s last blog post..Three Strikes – You’re Out!

    May 02, 2008
  • […] Saturday, marks the one week point.  It’s been one week since the bleeding of miscarriage began.  One week since I sat on the toilet, with Braden happily splashing in the tub to my left, […]

    May 03, 2008
  • […] off, I wanted to give Lotus a hug, but since she’s so far away, I’m gonna dedicate this week’s winners to her. Lots […]

    May 04, 2008
  • I didn’t have to look into your eyes to fall in love with you,
    I didn’t have to hear you cry to know you loved me too,
    I didn’t need to hold your hand to cherish you for always,
    Within my womb , we shared our hearts,
    You touched my soul,
    You sweetened my spirit,
    You gave me memories I”ll always hold dear,
    Yes, my heart aches since you departed too soon.
    But a mothers love does not end with death,
    For you are my child,
    Forever my love is yours

    Author unknown.

    May God’s light and love surround you even more right now.

    Widdle Shamrock’s last blog post..My Precious Widdle Squishy

    May 04, 2008
  • Damn, Lotus. I’m so sorry. Sorry I’m late in commenting, not that you were hitting refresh over and over waiting, or anything.

    Damn.

    So sorry.

    Jennifer’s last blog post..These Items Won’t Be on This Week’s Grocery List

    May 04, 2008
  • I’m very very sorry to hear that :(

    Karen (miscmum)’s last blog post..Alighting upon my seat for a brief moment

    May 05, 2008
  • I’m so very sorry for you and your sad news,
    take care,

    G
    xx

    Myst’s last blog post..Gratification

    May 05, 2008
  • Lotus, I am so sorry. Just know you and your family are in MANY peoples’ thoughts, including mine of course.

    BusyDad’s last blog post..Reason #34 Why You Don’t Want to Meet Me in Person

    May 05, 2008
  • I am so, so sorry sweetheart. Please accept my apologies for being such a tool and missing this.

    I know this really really sucks, and I am so sorry for your loss.

    Hug Braden real tight, k?

    *hugs*

    VDog’s last blog post..Little Man Goes to Daddy’s Office

    May 11, 2008
  • I’m so sorry.

    Carolyn Bahm’s last blog post..47×365, #13 – Karen R.

    May 13, 2008
  • […] It’s been like that for weeks now. Since the miscarriage. […]

    May 20, 2008
  • the ff

    oh lotus. . . i am so sorry

    May 21, 2008
  • Oh, hon, I’m so sorry. I’ve been so behind on blog reading that I had no idea. ((HUGS))

    Deb (Missives From Suburbia)’s last blog post..The Weight of Air

    May 22, 2008
  • I’m so very sorry.

    Amelie’s last blog post..Sunday afternoon, coffee shop

    May 26, 2008
  • […] seven weeks since it started; we’re still stuck. Would now be twelve […]

    June 13, 2008
  • […] When I miscarried back in April, I knew Christmas Eve would never be the same. That is when that first lost baby was […]

    December 15, 2008
  • […] I’ve watched her suffer two heartbreaking […]

    December 29, 2008
  • […] hope that they are somewhere where their eyes have opened unto the most beautiful sights they could ever dream of, […]

    January 07, 2010
  • […] year ago last Sunday I suffered a miscarriage.  It was the first (but not the last) time I would experience the realized loss of a living being […]

    March 25, 2014

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