On October 3rd, 2008, I found out he was alive inside of me.
I was surprised.
I sent my husband this photograph in an email with the subject line, “Ready to rumble?”
The body of the email said, “Here comes the fear, do-do-do-do….”
I was scared.
But also, I was cautiously happy.
Before long, I was full of hope. And dreams. And the future.
My last pregnancy had ended in miscarriage at 5 weeks.
The 5 week mark came and went. Trumpets blew inside my heart.
On October 18th, 2008, I had morning sickness for the first time. I have never been so happy to feel so sick.
I turned my arms within and held my baby a little closer, starting to believe I could hold on to that sweetness forever.
On November 10th, 2008, I saw him on a fuzzy, mini-ultrasound.
I saw his heart beating. And that was it. I Believed. He could make it.
We called him Fuzzball.
I thought one day I would be rubbing his head, calling him that.
I began showing. It felt glorious.
On November 24th, 2008, I heard his heart beating. It was vigorous.
In spirit, I jumped over the moon, grabbed a star, and brought it back to earth with me. It glowed inside of me.
Up until the end, I thought he was a girl. Maybe that is because, at a time when I felt like I was filled with snips and snails, he filled me with sugar instead. And spice.
And everything nice.
On December 9th, 2008 I found out he had died.
Everything nice scattered in the wind so quickly.
I saw him on a high quality ultrasound that day. He looked beautiful to me. I wish I could see him again.
I was too shaken up to ask for a print of the image. I regret that so much.
I have a pile of things – a pregnancy test, papers, armbands, photographs. They’re just material things. They are cold. They do not kick me in the stomach. They will never smile at me or hug my neck. But I look at them; I touch them.
I think of him.
On December 16th, 2008, people I hardly knew removed him from my body by way of a cold, surgical procedure. His body was sent for testing.
He was considered biological material.
Biological material. He did not have a name then. He was labeled “the product of conception.” They cultured his cells in a lab.
Davin had Trisomy 13.
I could write a whole essay on this alone, but that will come later.
I wanted to find a boy’s name I liked that meant “Hope.”
Even though I feel very little of it right now, I wanted to name him after the thing I thought I had lost forever, but which he gave me in surplus, even for such a brief time, without receiving anything in return.
Hope
And which, I know, will return in time. In part because he taught me that it’s okay to hope again even after you think it’s impossible.
Hope
Even if it hurts. Because it tells you that you are alive. And that you want to keep living. And that you believe that each day can be new if you can just let that come back to you.
Hope
Instead, we named him Davin, which means “Beloved.”
Forever he will be.
I miss him so.
#1 by Maggie's Mind on January 12, 2009 - 2:58 AM
Nothing I’ve typed and deleted here sounded quite right, but you are sounding like healing is doing its thing and like you are cooperating with it, not that there won’t always be a scar, but hopefully there will be some peace. And some hope.
(I’ve never named mine)
#2 by Krista on January 12, 2009 - 3:12 AM
Davin is a beautiful name, Lotus. Now you have a name for the angel watching over you. I hope he brings you more hope and healing.
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#3 by kompostela on January 12, 2009 - 3:17 AM
You choose beautiful name. His little heart loved you too because from the very first second he felt your love
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#4 by Suzanne on January 12, 2009 - 3:48 AM
It is a beautiful name.
My heart aches for you, John and Braden.
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#5 by Mr Lady on January 12, 2009 - 3:58 AM
Dammit, woman. You’re inspirational.
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#6 by Veronica on January 12, 2009 - 4:07 AM
Indeed he is beloved.
(((hugs)))
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#7 by Zoeyjane on January 12, 2009 - 4:17 AM
I just cried. That’s the most perfect name, ever.
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#8 by Mistress B on January 12, 2009 - 4:22 AM
A fitting name
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#9 by Fe on January 12, 2009 - 4:23 AM
a beautiful name for a beautiful boy. his story will be remembered.
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#10 by Angel on January 12, 2009 - 4:32 AM
It is perfect. <3
#11 by wright on January 12, 2009 - 4:39 AM
He has a beautiful name and will alway be loved.
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#12 by Trish on January 12, 2009 - 5:02 AM
I am so sorry you had so little time with Davin. He is too precious to forget. Beloved indeed.
“though in reality you were hardly there ~ in my heart you were everything”
Hope is sometimes all we can hold onto -
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#13 by Ness on January 12, 2009 - 5:51 AM
What a beautiful thing to do.
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#14 by Rebecca (Ramblings by Reba) on January 12, 2009 - 6:22 AM
Oh, what a beautiful name. I love it.
I’m glad you named him. I have an aunt who miscarried at 4 or 5 months… They named him Christopher. About 25 years later, I still think of Christopher, a baby I never met. In fact, I thought about him last week.
Much love…
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#15 by Taz on January 12, 2009 - 6:22 AM
big hugs..
am thinking of you
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#16 by Ashlie- Mommycosm on January 12, 2009 - 7:05 AM
Oh, honey. If I could reach through this screen and give you a hug, I would.
That’s a beautiful name you’ve given him.
You keep hanging in there, you hear?
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#17 by Michelle on January 12, 2009 - 7:09 AM
Davin … Beloved … Hope …
So beautiful …
#18 by Vic on January 12, 2009 - 7:22 AM
It’s a beautiful name. I’m glad to see your hope getting stronger.
#19 by badness jons on January 12, 2009 - 7:33 AM
It’s a wonderful name, and I’m so sorry that you never got to hold him. Hugs…
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#20 by connie on January 12, 2009 - 8:01 AM
What a beautiful name for your precious angel.
(((big hugs)))
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#21 by lceel on January 12, 2009 - 8:17 AM
<3
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#22 by Rachel on January 12, 2009 - 8:18 AM
It is a very beautiful name. Thanks you for sharing.
#23 by Lindsay on January 12, 2009 - 8:21 AM
That’s a great name
I hope that you feel hope again very soon 
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#24 by Vicky (Secret Mom Thoughts) on January 12, 2009 - 8:46 AM
i’m glad your hope is getting a little stronger. You are still in my thoughts.
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#25 by Kim H. on January 12, 2009 - 8:53 AM
You share your raw feelings so beautifully and perfectly. And you picked the perfect name for your sweet baby. I am praying for you and John and wishing you peace. You are a good Mom.
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#26 by AnnD on January 12, 2009 - 8:55 AM
Wow….ummm…..I really don’t know what to say…..I have no idea…..does having an answer give you peace? Does knowing his gender and giving him a name give you peace? Or is it all the more scary and chaotic in your head now? I would imagine that it would make you miss him even more now.
It is a scary diagnosis, I know that. I actually hadn’t heard of it until a few months ago when the YouTube video “99 Balloons” was featured on Oprah.
Stay strong Lotus! Your words pay tribute to him more than you will ever know. Your posts about your babies are just so beautiful and poignant.
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#27 by Josh on January 12, 2009 - 9:17 AM
still here with you… with nothing worthwhile to say.
#28 by Lisa on January 12, 2009 - 9:38 AM
Lotus, Davin is a gorgeous name. He is watching down on you guys, he’s your angel =)
You guys are still in my thoughts and prayers every day. I know all the words we say can’t make the pain go away but I’m hoping they help just a bit.
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#29 by Maria on January 12, 2009 - 9:42 AM
I am so sorry for your loss. I wish there was more I could say or do. I’d definitely give you a huge snurfling crying hug if you were right here.
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#30 by Tranny Head on January 12, 2009 - 10:04 AM
What a horrible, cold place medical facilities can be. I’m so sorry. Davin is a beautiful name.
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#31 by Chickadee on January 12, 2009 - 10:16 AM
*BIG HUGS* This had to be difficult to share and I thank you for sharing.
Never doubt for one second that Davin will always be with you and the time you spent with him, though it wasn’t quite the way you hoped, was precious and NOT wasted.
I hope you have found a support group or someone to help you heal. You will never be the same, but remember that is not always a bad thing.
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#32 by Tracy on January 12, 2009 - 10:28 AM
Oh, honey, I’m so sorry. Davin is a beautiful name and he will be remembered always. *HUGS*
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#33 by anne on January 12, 2009 - 10:31 AM
So beautiful, Lotus. A perfect name for one so very, very loved. So many words of encouragement I want to write that are completely stuck in my knuckles, so I’ll just send more online hugs and cry along with you.
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#34 by perpstu on January 12, 2009 - 10:36 AM
Davin is a beautiful name. It’s perfect. (((HUGS)))
#35 by kerry on January 12, 2009 - 11:00 AM
we are greiving with you and send love and strength. it is a beautiful name.
#36 by Alison on January 12, 2009 - 11:20 AM
That is a beautiful name! I love it.
#37 by Claire in CA, USA on January 12, 2009 - 12:06 PM
Perfect, fitting, beautiful name, Lotus. Praying for you.
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#38 by Sarah @ TM2TS on January 12, 2009 - 12:12 PM
*hugs*
That is a beautiful name, and a perfect choice.
#39 by Indigo on January 12, 2009 - 12:18 PM
Davin is a beautiful, fitting name. May the beauty of his spirit always give you Hope dear one. I know it hurts, this loss I’ve been there myself. Right now it sounds like the pieces of the puzzle are shifting, allowing you room to heal. Your in my thoughts! (Hugs)Indigo
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#40 by Amy @ Milk Breath & Margaritas on January 12, 2009 - 12:33 PM
Oh honey, Davin is beautiful. I’m so sorry. I hope it is a comfort to know what happened. Most people never know.
~hugs~
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#41 by Gabriel on January 12, 2009 - 12:58 PM
Beautiful, Lotus. Both the name and your thoughts.
You hang in there, we (your loyal readers) are taking care of business in the meantime.
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#42 by Barb @ getupandplay on January 12, 2009 - 1:14 PM
What a perfect name for your son. I’m glad you named him and want to remember him positively. He is yours, always.
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#43 by Angie [A Whole Lot of Nothing] on January 12, 2009 - 1:14 PM
A beautiful name. I wish you all the best.
#44 by Heidi on January 12, 2009 - 1:14 PM
I really wish I had the perfect thing to say. But I don’t, and nobody does. Except that we love you, you’re special.
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#45 by Issa on January 12, 2009 - 1:16 PM
Davin is a beautiful name. I’m sure he felt your love, for as long as he was here.
There is nothing I can say that makes any difference, I know, I’ve been there. Mine was named Piper. She only made it too 14 weeks. Just know you have a lot of people out here thinking good thoughts your way.
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#46 by Mary "MauiMary" on January 12, 2009 - 1:44 PM
With time comes (sometimes very slowly) healing and with healing the hope will come again. Davin is unique. A unique and special name for a unique and special baby. Y’all are still in my prayers and thoughts. Hugs to you, John and Braden.
M
#47 by sam {temptingmama} on January 12, 2009 - 1:57 PM
Such a beautiful name and such a fitting post.
*hugs*
You’re an amazing, amazing woman!
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#48 by gooddog on January 12, 2009 - 2:06 PM
thank you for posting.
what an amazing thing to share. what a dear boy.
hang in there. maybe it is helpful to know a “why?” (just one of the many “why”s- I know, I’ve been there)
Thinking of you.
#49 by T with Honey on January 12, 2009 - 2:07 PM
Davin is a wonderful name for him. After reading this post anyone, ANYone would know for sure that he is beloved.
Thinking of him. Continuing to hug you with prayers.
#50 by Allyson on January 12, 2009 - 2:13 PM
Thank you for sharing that. I needed a good cry anyway. His name is beautiful. And perfect.
#51 by Jenny from Mommin' It Up! on January 12, 2009 - 2:15 PM
bawling. that is one of the most beautiful things i have ever read.
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#52 by Momo Fali on January 12, 2009 - 2:25 PM
I keep typing, then deleting, then retyping comments here. There are no words. I am sorry.
#53 by Amanda on January 12, 2009 - 2:26 PM
I’ve only been lurking here a short while but had to delurk to tell you how sorry I am.
In November 2003, I miscarried my 2nd child at 10 weeks (even though she had died at only 7 weeks gestation) and only have a pregnancy test and some faint memories to remind me of this precious life I knew for too short a time. I also wish I’d asked for an ultrasound picture.
Davin is a lovely name.
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#54 by Courtney from Mommie Blogs on January 12, 2009 - 2:28 PM
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. your post was beautiful!
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#55 by Spoiled Mommy on January 12, 2009 - 2:31 PM
Gosh-I dont know what to say…my eyes are filled with tears and my heart hurts for you & the pain that your going through.
What a beloved name.
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#56 by Barbara on January 12, 2009 - 2:32 PM
Davin is a beautiful name. I’m glad he taught you that it’s ok to hope. Without that there is very little. Take good care of yourself.
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#57 by Heather, Queen of Shake Shake on January 12, 2009 - 2:38 PM
So beautiful, Lotus.
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#58 by Jeanette on January 12, 2009 - 3:05 PM
That’s a beautiful name.
I’m in tears here actually. I lost twins before I fell pregnant with Connor, and the tests revealed that they had Trisomy 18. Hectic how similar our pregnancy struggles have been.
#59 by Talina on January 12, 2009 - 3:18 PM
This was a beautiful post that both shows hints of closure and also shows that you are celebrating what time you were given with this little one, with Davin.
It is so great that you are allowing us to share in the grief process as you experience it. I have do doubt that your openness and honesty will help others who are or who have been through the same thing.
It is also good to know what the cause was and that it was nothing you had any control over.
Hope is a wonderful thing and it keeps us going, I see your hope in this post and that shows great strength and healing in you. Hugs! You are doing great babe.
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#60 by frogpondsrock on January 12, 2009 - 3:28 PM
(((hugs))) for you and for your beloved..
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#61 by Rachel on January 12, 2009 - 3:31 PM
Beautiful, Lotus.
Just Beautiful.
{hugs} and love my darling.
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#62 by Fear and Parenting in Las Vegas on January 12, 2009 - 3:46 PM
I am so sorry for your tragic loss. I hope that 2009 brings you healing and happiness.
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#63 by Kim on January 12, 2009 - 3:53 PM
Oh Lotus.. that is a beautiful name..
oh..and I sending another big big hug..
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#64 by Sandi on January 12, 2009 - 3:57 PM
A lovely name. Hugs to you!
#65 by Special K on January 12, 2009 - 3:59 PM
What a beautiful unique name, just like he was!
#66 by Chibi Jeebs on January 12, 2009 - 4:01 PM
New reader who hasn’t made it that far back in your archives, but I wanted to say that I’m very sorry for your loss. *hugs*
#67 by Ashley @ mrs007.com on January 12, 2009 - 4:28 PM
And Davin Carroll will never be forgotten. I think Mr.Lady said it best “Dammit, woman. You’re inspirational.”
Yep you are.
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#68 by Terri - teelgee on January 12, 2009 - 4:35 PM
Lotus, that’s so beautiful. I’m grateful you’re sharing this journey with us. Blessings and hugs.
#69 by Michelle on January 12, 2009 - 4:59 PM
Stop freaking making me cry woman. Seriously, I’m still so very sorry and think of you often. Maybe having an answer to the “why” will give you some measure of piece? I never had any testing done to get answers so I don’t know…but regardless it doesn’t stop the pain.
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#70 by Mel @ A Box of Chocolates on January 12, 2009 - 5:49 PM
I never know the right words and they aren’t coming around this time either. I’m very sorry to hear about your loss and can’t fathom what you must have felt and are still feeling. I am glad that your hope is growing though. May you find comfort in it and through time may it blossom for you. Hugs!!
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#71 by Jessica on January 12, 2009 - 6:41 PM
Very beautiful! Many hugs!
#72 by Patsy on January 12, 2009 - 6:51 PM
Very beautifully written. This sounded like a bit of healing is taking place. Davin will live in you heart forever as Grayson (my grandson for 26 weeks) lives in mine.
Continue to heal and then begin to hope.
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#73 by SECRET AGENT MAMA on January 12, 2009 - 7:11 PM
I so sorry for your loss of Davin. Truly sorry.
#74 by janelle on January 12, 2009 - 8:38 PM
what a beautifully written post.
i’m sorry for your loss.
it seems so lame, but expresses truly what i feel.
what else to say? i’m just sorry.
i wish peaceful healing for you lotus.
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#75 by Domestic Extraordinaire on January 12, 2009 - 9:34 PM
Many hugs to you again, Lotus. This was simply beautiful-just as you are.
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#76 by Stephanie on January 12, 2009 - 9:49 PM
A beautiful name, for a tiny angel. Hugs to you.
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#77 by witchypoo on January 12, 2009 - 9:51 PM
It’s a good name. Davin. Hope.
You are in my heart.
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#78 by Tanya on January 12, 2009 - 10:34 PM
giving someone a name makes so much difference.
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#79 by Rachael on January 12, 2009 - 11:19 PM
What a beautiful post, and a nice tribute to Davin. He will certainly be able to rest in peace with a loving mother like you to remember him.
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#80 by Mrs. Schmitty on January 12, 2009 - 11:47 PM
Perfect name. You are amazing.
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#81 by tiff on January 12, 2009 - 11:48 PM
Nothing seems right to say. Nothing could tell you how beautiful that name is and how I believe in hope.
#82 by Texan Mama on January 13, 2009 - 12:04 AM
Hmm, I have no wise words. I have only trite, unamusing quips that provide neither comfort nor knowledge.
I can cyber-hug ya. Want that?
(((HUGS)))
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#83 by fruitlady on January 13, 2009 - 12:31 AM
I am without words, but yours are so beautiful they say all that needs to be said. Hold on to your hope and your love.
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#84 by Karin on January 13, 2009 - 1:51 AM
Oh Lotus. I am so sad for you. You gave a beautiful name to a precious gift of a child. Until you get there, we will all hope for you.
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#85 by Bunny on January 13, 2009 - 6:40 AM
Oh, Lotus. I can only imagine how you must feel going through all of this. I’m so very sorry for the loss of this beautiful, hope-filled, joyous baby. I am so happy to see that there is some hope still in your life, that he has left his angel mark on you. I hope this new year brings you peace and hope.
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#86 by Sarah on January 13, 2009 - 9:46 AM
Davin is a great name and he is beloved.
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#87 by Christina on January 13, 2009 - 10:10 AM
Davin is a lovely name.
And it’s good to know what happened, even though it doesn’t help at all to take away the hurt. But as you said, hang on to hope.
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#88 by Colleen - Mommy Always Wins on January 13, 2009 - 10:23 AM
I’m so sorry for you, Lotus. My heart reaches out to you.
#89 by Jennifer, Playgroups are no place for children on January 13, 2009 - 10:57 AM
I’m crying, Lotus. So beautiful. Your son’s name, perfect.
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#90 by Jill on January 13, 2009 - 11:24 AM
Such a beautiful tribute – and a most fitting name.
My wish for you is that you keep hoping… keep believing… I’m proof it can happen even after 2 years of trying, 3 miscarriages, 2 D&C’s, endless bloodtests, 2 surgeries, and now an unbelievable high risk pregnancy in a 3rd world country.
My heart goes out to you and your beautiful family.
#91 by Karleigh on January 13, 2009 - 1:53 PM
I love you. Yes, keep hoping. I’m hoping for you, too.
#92 by mommyknows on January 13, 2009 - 2:59 PM
A perfect name for your wee boy. You’re in my thoughts and hopes!
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#93 by PandoraWilde on January 13, 2009 - 3:29 PM
I did some reading on Trisomy 13 and I just don’t know what to say except that you’re all in my prayers. I don’t know why things happened as they did (and I’m not going to hand you “God’s Will” because that just isn’t cutting it for me, let alone thinking it would cut it for you) but I’m sorry as hell that they did. Hugs and prayers.
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#94 by imaginary binky on January 13, 2009 - 5:06 PM
You have my love, lady.
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#95 by Anna Ellis on January 13, 2009 - 7:42 PM
I agree with everyone here. Davin is a perfect name. I’m always here for you Lotus. Always. Always.
#96 by Melissa on January 13, 2009 - 10:14 PM
Ditto everyone else on the perfect name choice. That love never goes away.
#97 by Teri on January 13, 2009 - 11:52 PM
The name is beautiful. You will be with your Angel again some day. May you find peace in your heart and strength.
#98 by Elaine on January 14, 2009 - 12:40 AM
I am sorry you ever had to write this post but it is beautiful. What a beautiful name for your little one…
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#99 by Veronica Mitchell on January 14, 2009 - 12:38 PM
I haven’t been around the blogosphere much lately, so I didn’t know. I am so sorry you have gone through this again. This is a beautiful post, and such a loving tribute to little Davin.
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#100 by Khryste on January 14, 2009 - 12:58 PM
I love reading your blog. You have a great way with words. I am truly sorry for your losses, even though I don’t really know you – heartache is universal.
Along with a host of other crap last year (that I dub ‘08: The Year I Hate) my mother died only 2 weeks after I had my second baby and she never got to meet him.
Anyway, If you are a reader, try checking out The Shack by Wm. Paul Young. It gave me fresh insight to help my grieving heart.
#101 by magpie on January 14, 2009 - 1:58 PM
Lotus – I’m so sorry. Take care of yourself.
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#102 by Joey on January 14, 2009 - 8:13 PM
I’m so sorry your Beloved Davin is not in your arms, I know how empty they fill. I’ll ask my Jack to show him around the stars and my dad who passed the same day as Davin to watch over him.
Don’t you let anyone rush your grief, it’s hard and it sucks. Hugs from a stranger!
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#103 by Bev on January 16, 2009 - 4:01 PM
Another amazing post. I love the name Davin.
#104 by Tara on January 16, 2009 - 7:34 PM
I’m not sure of your beliefs but these verses have always given me solace.
“For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made…”
Psalm 139:13-14
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#105 by Amy on January 18, 2009 - 9:35 AM
Beautifully written.
I am so sorry for your loss. You will be in my prayers.
#106 by loveyh on January 19, 2009 - 6:46 PM
Oh, no, Lotus, I am a horrible friend. I just read this today. I am so sorry. So sorry. My heart is breaking for you–truly.
He is certainly watching over you. I know it.
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