I Wonder… Is your phone really worth it?

I used to work in a jewelry store, and policy was to hand it over because you’re less likely to get hurt. Did get robbed, we let them take what they want and they left. Slightly different situation than having your personal stuff taken, but most of the time when they’re going to rob you they aren’t out to kill as well.

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i would TOTALLY hand over everything i had.

and possibly things i didn’t have as well!

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I would hand over the Phone, the Laptop, and I would offer to give him a blow job.

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There was a time when I think I would have liked to think I’d fight for what is mine. But that was before I was in a happy relationship and had a daughter to think of. My responsibility is to them and making sure they are safe and taken care of. However – my pregnancy hormones sometimes turn me into the Hulk so, who knows?!

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Best advice I’ve heard lately, from a self-defense specialist type guy who teaches a Jujitsu class my friend is in and was at her party, yeah, TMI, anyway…

He said, toss what they want towards them and run like hell while they scramble for it.

Sounds good to me.

Would I risk death for a laptop and a phone?

HELL NO.

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You bring up good points about the thief killing you once you hand over your stuff….but I think I’d take a chance & hand it over anyway. I wouldn’t want to agitate the criminal!

I would hand it over too. Although I have heard the same thing Kat has, throw it towards them and then bolt while they grab it. Generally the wallet etc is more important to them than shooting you.

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The situation is much more different once you have children of your own. I remember being 20, single, childless, and in college – for the most part I felt invincible and i was accountable for only myself… not sure what I would have done back then, but today I would certainly give up the goods. You can replace a phone and a laptop, but you cannot replace your life.

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I would give up my shit AND ask him if he wanted me to gift wrap it for him.
Seriously, material things are SO not worth risking getting killed or even injured.
I think she’s dumb.

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I would give up my stuff… no doubt.

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I’d have done something different, but that wasn’t me in this situation.

But, yes, you should just throw your stuff and pedal to the metal.

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Actually, the prevailing wisdom is throw the stuff away from you both, assailant going to fetch it gives you better getaway opportunity.

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That ‘toss the stuff and run like hell’ thing that KAT mentioned is a good idea. And it’s what I would do. That said, whoever would do such a thing to me had better be real good at looking over his shoulder, because I’ll be looking for him and I’ll be prepared, when I find him.

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Those things are replaceable, I’m not-they can have them.

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I don’t know. My iPhone is pretty precious to me.

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Wow, Hm… it’s only a laptop and phone? She can get another one. However, if she would have been shot instead of the purse… She could have had permenent damage to her body or she would have died. I mean, give me a break. It’s material shit.

oh i have a better idea. Since he tried to take her life, I would not feel bad for taking his. So I would hand it over and as he was running away, duck down (to avoid getting shot, but still able to see where you’re going) and run over his funky ass.

My entire life is on my laptop. Everything I have ever written, every photograph, my job, everything. And that is why I am diligent about keeping everything backed up safely on a external hard drive that stays at home.

I would think that there was a good 50/50 that no matter what I did I would get hurt. There are so many senseless shootings in the news that I am starting to believe these days ANY criminal that points a gun at me intends to shoot me. People are more desperate these days and way less desensitized to violence.

With that said I would do everything in my power to get away. Including giving the A-hole what they want. Here in Orlando I have had a few friends get mugged. Give up what the thief wanted and ran, and then were chased down and beat even after they gave up what they wanted. Another friend was sliced with a knife across the face after almost being hit by a drunk driver in the parking lot. Things are not okay these days.

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I don’t think I’d hand it over either though.

Not because I’m brave or courageous. But because I’d be frikkin’ paralyzed in fear.

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I will give up my husband before I give up my computer, so I’m not sure what I’d do.

Really tho, I’d hand it all over while crapping my pants.

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I’d probably go with the toss and run in a similar situation.

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I would give my stuff up but fight if they tried to take me anywhere. You know what Oprah says, the “second location” is usually where you get whacked…

Heck yea, I would have fought back! Of course, I do have an advanced blue belt in mixed martial arts. So, I can pretty much take care of myself.

NO question~I would’ve given them anything they wanted. NO material item is worth my life & leaving my children mother-less!

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I’d totally be handing it over. It may be gutsy to take on a criminal but it’s not smart. It doesn’t matter that you were right if you’re dead. I’d rather be a live “wuss-bag-pussy-baby” than a dead chick with balls.

Ok….I would have handed all of my crap over to the idiot with the gun.
Maybe she was just protecting her Dolce and Gabbana wallet. I would rather be alive and purseless then chic and dead. Just sayin’

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Ok I totally didn’t read Shannon’s comment before I wrote mine. Great minds….

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I love my Precious, but I love myself even more. I’m heavily self-involved like that.

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He would of had my stuff faster than I could of handed it to him. I have kids to watch graduate, get married, grandchildren to meet…there is no way in hell that I would of fought that guy.

Call me egotistical but I would of been thinking about me…all me! She’s lucky to be alive but a dumb ass for doing it. Sorry.

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I am with you on that, besides I have a cheap laptop and cellphone. It would be a perfect excuse to by new ones. I would even offer to drive home and get him a few other things.

My daughter goes to the college where this happened, and her boyfriend knows this girl.

Sugarplum told me that when the guy walked up grabbing at her phone, she was caught off guard and confused, and was like “What the hell – let go?!?” and didn’t really stop and think it was an actual robbery. I can sort of see this (if it’s true).

I bought Sugarplum Dolce and Gabanna sunglasses for her birthday this year, and she was like HA! the Dolce sunglass case saved Elizabeth! As if somehow they are justified in charging bajillions of dollars for sunglasses now.

Teenagers. Gah.

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GIVE THEM THE STUFF!!!

My life sux right now but it’s worth hanging on to!

I think I’d likely be confused and argue with him… just because that is what I tend to do when frightened and confused. I’m not stupid, though and I’d like to think, that I’d just give them what they want… that is what insurance is for, right?

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she’s a moron. for one thing she got OUT of the vehicle? good lord. anyway… she might as well have put the damn thing in gear, ducked and floored it. self defense. maybe that’s just me, in my overprotective of a newborn self right now.

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I would not only give up the laptop and phone, but I’d also offer my checkbook, cash and credit cards. Because dude, I have kids at home.

Well, since I am a ninja, I would just reverse the roles and get his own gun pointed at him before he knew what was happening. It’s how I roll.

Well, I used to think I would be brave and tell the person exactly where they could go. Having worked in a bank and personally been held up, I now have the priviledge of knowing exactly what I would do even if it is against bank policy: I started rooting around for as much money as I could possibly find to get the guy to go away as fast as possible. I emptied out as much money as I had in my drawer and kindly asked if he would like to take a trip to the vault to get some more. (Obviously not the correct answer according to the bank, but whatever!) Thankfully he left without incident and no one was harmed. It was very scary and I really didn’t know what I would do until it happened.

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Dumbass. The only thing worth fighting an armed man for would be my child.

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I hope I don’t ever need to know. I would think though that I would hand it all over.

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Hand it right over.. not worth my life. heck no.

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I’d hand over anything short of my husband or dream dog.

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I would have handed them over instantly. And probably offered up my sad collection of jewelry, too. I can get a new laptop (eventually), but my kids can’t get a new mom.

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I would probably cover my eyes with my hands, curl into fetal position and tell them to take what they want. But that’s just me. No, I also don’t believe in playing hardball with criminals. I sincerely hope I never get the opportunity, either way.

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I totally agree. If someone tries to rob me, I’m handing it over. Like Gina said, it’s replaceable, but we aren’t.

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I agree with you.
I don’t know exactly how I would have responded, but I probably would have given it to him, and I do know that I think she’s a nut.

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Yeah, I would throw the stuff away from myself and run away. At least that is what logic tells me to do….

But you are also talking to a woman who ran towards a gang fight where bats (and supposedly a gun was flashed) in order to get K-8rd graders away from the situation…… while I was 7 months pregnant….. But I guess that is a different situation, since other kids were involved. Never for stuff….. only for people…..

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I’m sorry – she’s a dumbass! Definitely not the sharpest tool in the shed – and thank God she had that D & G wallet to absorb the blow of the bullet. Oiy vey!

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Of course I’d hand it over! Computers can be replaced; vital organs are a tad bit harder to come by.

And as far as giving it to them vs. not based on them killing you, I would take my chance and hope that they’d let me go. If I refuse they can still just take it off my dead body.

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Hand over the stuff, definitely.

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You know I want to tell you that I’d give it over and run for my life, but I just can’t abide by a thief. If you asked I’d likely give you whatever you needed. Just don’t take it from me.

I wanna tell you I’m smart enough to do the right thing, but I think I wouldn’t give my stuff up without a fight.

My grandmother was robbed when she was 70 and she held on to her purse so hard they had to rip it from her hands. She still had the handles when they made their way off with the rest of the bag.

I just don’t know if I could let some punk make off with my stuff when he didn’t work for it like I did.

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I tagged you for a meme too, it’s not a hard one.

(And you know I don’t do meme’s anymore, so it is definitely a good one.)

I say throw the laptop and purse in one direction and run like niagra falls in the other.

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I agree with Just Jinny, throw the laptop and purse and run.

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Whu? Oh hell to the NO! You want my purse and you have a gun. That shiz is insured. You can have it! SRSLY!

I already know my gut instict is to flee. You know that fight or flight thing. I was shall we say challenged once in my younger days when in a bar (yea, I’m classy like that) and well, I didn’t hang around to find out the outcome. I’m pretty sure I would hand it all over, while at the same time asking why, and who are you. I have that in repertoire also.

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Yeah, they might kill you once you give your stuff up, but if you try to fight them off and agitate the person holding the effing gun, I think they’re gonna be alot more likely to shoot you! As a PP said, I’d be handing over the laptop, phone, keys to my car, and a blow job. Lol. Not worth my life!

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bashed his face in with my laptop, and taken his picture with the camera on my phone.

you could say, i may be a tad feisty. with a little bad-ass thrown in.

How about a little testosterone in this discussion?

Maybe I’m one of dem der bitter clingers, with my guns and religion, but unless your packin’ it’s not smart do what this woman did. The statistics are definitely not on your side.

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MamaWise,

I think being a mom definitely gives you a different perspective. I was more likely to do ALL sorts of stupid things when I was younger!

Not sure about this one, though! Then again, I didn’t have a cell phone or laptop at that age, anways. Heh.

Lotus:)
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Secret Agent Mama,

I get that it’s not me in that situation, so I don’t know what I really would have done, but I think ti’s foolish for it to be broadcast all over that her actions are “brave,” as if that’s what we should all TRY to do. Just kept really irritating me the way they seemed to be celebrating her behavior instead of pointing out how FORTUNATE she just happened to be in the face of her choices.

Lotus:)
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Avitable,

Dude, your IPhone would totally give you up in the face of a gun. Don’t let it play you like that!

Lotus:)
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Allie,

That makes absolute sense to me.

Lotus:)
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Amy,

Yeah, but she told the media he asked her for the phone and then added that he wanted the laptop… ? I dunno. I know you never can tell what you will do in a crazy situation, but I just wish the media would have made more of an effort to point out how fortunate she was and that most of the time it’s better to just throw your stuff and get away. She was sitting in a truck, for pete’s sake!

And LOL @ Sugarplum for totally trying to justify the worth of the sunglasses, but totally ignoring the dork equipment (calculator) that also saved her life! Selective, there! Haha….

Lotus:)
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Jill,

I was thinking I’d have given him the crap and gotten the hell out of there in my big-ass truck.

I guess you never know, but yeah.

Lotus:)
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Hockeyman,

Good thing you have such skills, as it looks like your wife is ready to hand you over to the gunman (while crapping her pants, it seems).

Lotus:)
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My laptop has lojack and my phone only works half the time. They can take them, my empty purse, my money pit car, and my worn out tennis shoes for all I care. Leave me in one piece. I’ll even show you how fast a tired old mommy can run.

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If some dude flashed a gun at me and said give me your purse, I’d throw it at him and run the other way.

I think she was stupid, too – you can always get another laptop, but you’ll never get another life.

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I am totally hormonal right now thanks to pregnancy and I guess it all depends on how my day was and what mood I was in.

I am the kind of girl who will fight a huge football player in a bar just because he shoved me… My anger does get the best of me so if I was mad I would have probably knocked some teeth out with my giant purse or something.

It all just depends on my mood I guess.

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Give him the stuff! Odds are he’s a druggie that just wants cash and doesn’t want to get involved with killing someone. He probably knows there’s more prison time if he kills you and gets caught (there could be other witnesses) than if he just takes your stuff.

Also? Backup your photos, etc. somewhere that’s not on your laptop, so you don’t have any split-second reservations “gee, all my baby’s pictures are on there…” (There’s other reasons to back stuff up, of course, but add not-hesitating-when-faced-with-a-life-or-laptop-decision to your list.)

Why do I always write such long comments on your blog?? Seriously. Sorry, Lotus. I guess you just inspire me…

I think she’s right in saying in the video that you don’t REALLY know what you’d do until faced with such a situation. I can’t say that I know what’d I do and I hope to never have to find out!

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Yeah, that’s why God invented insurance. For when your stuff gets lost or stolen. Sheesh.

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First, I don’t have a laptop or a cellphone. I refuse to be tech tied 24×7.

I’d like to say I’d be smart, but I’m guessing I’d be more like Cri. I’d wack him upside the head with that big ol purse, and give a swift kick where the sun don’t shine, and a nice double fist uppercut as be bent down in pain. If he wasn’t unconcious yet, I’d have to give him a swift kick in the head.

Don’t mess with this mom.