I’m a wuss-bag.

05.20.08 sweet

His beautiful hair…
I have been holding out for
quite a long time now.

I loved the way it
made those sweet, lovely little
curls right at the back.

The soft, golden hue
glistened and shone whenever
light bounced off of them.

05.20.08 curls

The long, wispy front
gave him a place to hide and
reflect on his thoughts.

Concentration

Sometimes while he was
playing, I would twirl fingers
in curls behind him.

This was baby hair.
I have been clinging to the
last shreds of days passed.

Alas, it was time.
The hair was becoming quite
a nuisance to him.

Snip, snip, snip, snip, snip.
Something so simple, yet still
so emotional.

05.28.08 firsthaircut

Hair that I once touched,
smelled, kissed, washed, stroked, and caressed
fell down to the floor.

And who is this now?
This little boy before me?
My baby is gone.

05.29.08 brush2

102 comments


  • Oh my gosh! How cute! He does look like a big boy now. Aw…

    Maggie’s last blog post..Haiku Friday 5/30/08

    May 30, 2008
  • Those girls were adorable, but he looks so handsome with his new haircut.

    Christine’s last blog post..Being the breadwinner can ruin your marriage?

    May 30, 2008
  • I meant curls…not girls. Clearly it’s too late for me to be up.

    Christine’s last blog post..Being the breadwinner can ruin your marriage?

    May 30, 2008
  • Aww! No more gorgeous little curls! *sigh* I guess that’ll teach me not to get attached to someone else’s kid’s hair. :(

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    May 30, 2008
  • I LOVE IT! LOVE IT!! LOVE IT!!!!

    I was secretly hoping you’d cut it soon (I’m not big into little boys with long hair – I know – it’s just me (but I love guys with longish hair – just not little boys)). He looks so much bigger now. And so handsome!

    Hecticmom Undone’s last blog post..5+ Hours at the Fields

    May 30, 2008
  • oh, I love it. I think it’s so cute when little boys have haircuts like that. Though I do admit, I wish you had left the back long and cut the top short in order to let him have a baby mullet for just a few days.

    Shamelessly Sassy’s last blog post..Tranny Hooker Eyelids: Cheerleading Competition Make-Up

    May 30, 2008
  • LOVE IT! Seriously, and he looks a lot more like John too.

    There was a boy in my daycare and his parents refused to cut his hair. He was 4 and everyone still thought he was a girl. Really, it was awful and it got in his eyes and got all full of paint and other nasty kiddy stuff and nose goo and bleh. They finally had a baby girl this April so I hope they finally cut it.

    But anyway, yeah, I’m sure it was a little hard but I bet he feels sooo much more comfortable now!

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    May 30, 2008
  • What a handsome little guy!

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    May 30, 2008
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  • You swapped kids!

    Xbox4NappyRash’s last blog post..Available for trade

    May 30, 2008
  • Kat

    LOVE IT! He looks SO HANDSOME! Can’t wait to see more pics of this new growed-up Braden!

    May 30, 2008
  • What a handsome devil! He looks fabulous!

    melissaz’s last blog post..Haiku Friday 5/30/08

    May 30, 2008
  • Super cute! I love little boy haircuts.

    I bet Celine Dion’s kid wishes she had cut his hair. Yikes…

    Walking With Scissors’s last blog post..The Truth About Parenthood…

    May 30, 2008
  • It’s a good thing that you have taken so many pictures to remember his beautiful hair. He still is adorable and definitely looks so grown up now! I’m with you though, I would be crying if I had just done the same thing. :)

    kspin’s last blog post..Say Goodnight And Go…

    May 30, 2008
  • Jenty

    OMW, he looks so cute and damn naughty in that last pic!!
    And yes, the baby has gone, he’s now a little boy.

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    May 30, 2008
  • Denise

    lotus, he’s a beautiful boy – long OR short hair! :)

    May 30, 2008
  • I did like his long hair. He looked like a little rocker, but I like it now, too. He looks grown up and very handsome. I don’t think anyone will confuse him for a girl now!

    shannymar’s last blog post..The strokes, the after effects…

    May 30, 2008
  • OMG, I am so shocked! He looks so cute but SO grown-up.

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    May 30, 2008
  • Taz

    he is such a cutie..

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    May 30, 2008
  • ahhh he looks lovely and so much more comfortable.. and so cute

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    May 30, 2008
  • river

    Wow, what a transformation. I think he looks so much like his daddy now. (If it had been me I would have asked for a more wispy cut but then he would still get mistaken for a girl I suppose…)

    May 30, 2008
  • He’ll be more comfortable over the summer though. He looks adorable either way!

    anne’s last blog post..Haiku Friday: Sex and a Man’Ku

    May 30, 2008
  • Im your opposite.

    :)

    been wanting to give my daughter a mohawk for a while now.
    husband said DO IT and then I waited a day because life intruded—the next day when she and I were all excited to shear he said NO I HATH CHANGED MY MIND. PLEASE DONT.

    dang it…

    MizFit’s last blog post..Link Love and a Friday FREEBIE!

    May 30, 2008
  • Aw jeez.

    I never thought of the first haircut with a boy.

    I waited til my daughter was 3.5 before I gave her her first haircut, and I regretted it since…All her curls….lost.

    I’m sorry.

    But he’s so cute either way, look at him smile.

    ~JJ!’s last blog post..Sigh ‘ku

    May 30, 2008
  • awwwwwwww, did you keep the curls? I still have my babies curls…

    Kelley’s last blog post..Duuuude! Point that thing outside.

    May 30, 2008
  • Dude, the first haircut is heartbreaking. I cried the whole time I cut Amy’s hair for the first time.

    He looks so grown up now, isn’t it strange how hair can change their faces so much!

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    May 30, 2008
  • He is a cute little man! Did you save any of the hair?

    Happy Friday!

    wright’s last blog post..Haiku Friday – Missing Her

    May 30, 2008
  • I can understand your hesitancy. He did have such beautiful hair! Emma has no hair!! So, we are still a long way away from her first haircut! He looks like a little man now!

    AnnD’s last blog post..More thoughts on birth…

    May 30, 2008
  • He looks so happy in that last photo! I love his new big kid haircut.

    I have only trimmed Miss A’s hair once and she’s 3. I’ve been braiding it on vacation, though. Too wild! Maybe dreadlocks would be easier. ;)

    May 30, 2008
  • awwwhhh! adorable! what a sweetie.

    you are blessed, kathleen :)

    ps. happy friday

    so grateful to be mormon’s last blog post..how different would your life be if?

    May 30, 2008
  • He’s so cute!

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    May 30, 2008
  • He’s all growed up. Sniff.

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    May 30, 2008
  • All boy!
    He looks so adorable.

    Baby curls are cute, but I love his all boy look here better.

    nancy’s last blog post..My Response to One Day, 24 Hours

    May 30, 2008
  • Katia

    sniff. But it looks great.
    I was unfortunately robbed of the opportunity to cut my child’s hair… one of her daycare teachers did it, without my permission. There was much drama.

    Katia’s last blog post..biking with kids

    May 30, 2008
  • He was cute with the curls but OH MY GOD! SOOOO CUTE! I love it!

    I cried at my son’s first haircut….I don’t think I’m ever letting my daughter get hers cut!

    Alison’s last blog post..Semi-Wordless Thursday

    May 30, 2008
  • Alison

    He does look like a big boy now!!! My son’s hair isn’t or shall I say wasn’t, as long as Braden’s but I’m going to dread cutting it when it’s time to do so!

    May 30, 2008
  • Angie S

    He looks adorable!!!
    They grow way to fast don’t they. They need to install a pause button for these babies.

    May 30, 2008
  • MP

    He looks like a BIG BOY..and he’ll love to feel the breeze on his neck..especially on a hot day!

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    May 30, 2008
  • AWWWWWW…what a handsome boy!

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    May 30, 2008
  • I would tell you to “Be a MAN” about this — but that is just. so. wrong.

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    May 30, 2008
  • Dana

    Awww! how adorable! When I had my first (2) boys hair cut almost 13 yrs ago…they’ll be 15 in 2 mths, I was the same way. J had long curls in the back, big round spirals so cute, he was baby faced and cuddly. 10 minutes later no curls and instant little boy. It’s amazing what one little snip of the scissors can do. Now they’re bigger than me, think they’re grown but in my mind….mama’s babies!

    May 30, 2008
  • Oh My Goodness.. He looks so Big.. Still very very cute though…

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    May 30, 2008
  • Oh my gosh!!!! What a cutie! He looks like such a big boy! I love it!

    Kathryn’s last blog post..Remembering

    May 30, 2008
  • I loved Braden’s hair/curls but his new haircut is SOOO cute! Does he seem to like it so far?

    Connie’s last blog post..American Idol Faceoff

    May 30, 2008
  • OMG. You shrunk your husband. He totally looks like a mini-me of his daddy now.

    I hated to cut Noise’s hair for the first time. I think he rocked that baby mullet until the very last minute– same sort of thing, long blonde wispy curls in the back. When we cut it, I was unexplainably bereft, missing his baby days.

    He looks adorable. He looks like a boy. He’s going to be a lot less annoyed and sweaty this summer without all that hair. And you’ll be thankful. He’s getting to be about the age where boys start to have a certain “boy funk” and the hair cut will help with that. It happened way earlier than I thought, but that funk showed up before he was even two. Stinky boys!

    The Other Dawn’s last blog post..Can’t Go Back Now

    May 30, 2008
  • LOTUS!! I LOVE BRADENS NEW ‘DO!! LOVE IT!! And the pic you posted.. HE looks SO proud of his makeover!
    Oh Oh Oh.. cant WAIT for more pics!!

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    May 30, 2008
  • Awwww. What a sweetie!

    I still have the snips from both of my daughter’s and my grandson’s first haircuts. And I cried every single time. :)

    Catscratch’s last blog post..Monsters, Hot Peppers & Hell

    May 30, 2008
  • Ree

    Oh mah holy hell, you did it! He’s so cute….regardless of hair – but I but you’ve got those curls saved…

    Ree’s last blog post..Dream Day

    May 30, 2008
  • He looks adorable! And so happy! He does look like a big boy now. I almost cried when my son got his first haircut. But that was because he was trying to strangle me while they cut his hair. LOL

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    May 30, 2008
  • Aww what a good big boy he was!! :)

    Looks gorgeous!

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    May 30, 2008
  • He looks so handsome!

    FireMom’s last blog post..When It Rains…

    May 30, 2008
  • what a big boy he is!!!!

    and i know how you feel — when i cut drama king’s curls, i cried BIG crocodile tears. (eh. he’s 24 now, and buzzes his hair.)

    the planet of janet’s last blog post..Haiku Friday: the opposite sex — loved and lost — edition
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    May 30, 2008
  • Oh. Wowza. The haircut is adorable & Braden rocks the style. But it really, really looks like a “big guy” haircut and makes him instantly older. It had to be done someday….thanks for sharing the moment with us here. You did a great job on the style choice :)

    HappyCampers’s last blog post..Weekly Winner!

    May 30, 2008
  • I am so sad. Know why? Michael has been hinting to cutting Davey’s hair and I don’t wanna. I wanna have his little baby hair for as long as possible. Now Braden’s looking ever-so cute in his big boy do and it makes me sad that my little guy will soon be in the same do boat. Wahhhhhhhhhh.

    Secret Agent Mama’s last blog post..Haiku Friday

    May 30, 2008
  • Wow..gorgeous hair. My son had longish hair too but it didn’t curl — it stuck straight out — so it had to go and I was a weepy mess. So I can relate.

    May 30, 2008
  • I feel your pain. But he looks just as cute now.

    May 30, 2008
  • Angie Harrison

    Aww! His haircut is so cute! He is such a big boy now!

    May 30, 2008
  • Kate

    i love getting my little guy’s hair cut… i just love how it makes him look a little more grown up with each trim… i love that it reminds me to revel in the fact that he isn’t grown up yet… it reminds me to smooch him all over now because when he drives himself over to get a haircut after school on his way to work he won’t let me smooch and tickle him when he gets home… braden’s new haircut is adorable! smooch him all over!

    May 30, 2008
  • cj

    Been there with both my kids. The first haircut is always so emotional. He totally looks like a big guy now. This is the first of many firsts!!

    May 30, 2008
  • He is SOOOOO cute!!!!

    Manic Mom’s last blog post..Menus for Crack

    May 30, 2008
  • KD (A Bit Squirrelly)

    Aww I feel your pain! We have not been able to bring orselves to cut Bardolf’s hair (other then a tiny trim) and I keep thinking it is time! He is so handsome all clipped however!

    KD (A Bit Squirrelly)’s last blog post..Smoothalicious-ness

    May 30, 2008
  • Tranny Head

    Aww . .. my baby is growing some crazy hairs on the sides in the back – it looks like a mullet. And I’m embracing the mullet! I hate the thought of trimming those lovely blonde curls.

    Tranny Head’s last blog post..The Dentist

    May 30, 2008
  • Okay, he is the cutest thing ever! Look at that haircut and that big grin with the toothbrush. Oh my gosh!

    RubiaLala’s last blog post..One Time You Broke My Rib

    May 30, 2008
  • Wow, he looks so much older.

    You were both very brave.

    blogversary’s last blog post..release

    May 30, 2008
  • Awe honey.
    He looks adorable, but it’s amazing how it changes their appearance.
    I know you saved those curls though. Don’t worry, I won’t tell that you’ll be opening the bag and stroking the curls with your heart whimpering. Promise.

    rachel’s last blog post..Swinging and Sprinklers

    May 30, 2008
  • Oh my god! Who could beat that cutie boyish kid you’ve got in your four walls now?! His the champ now! Hey go enrol him in some baby model contest!

    angeline’s last blog post..Chipped….Chipped Off

    May 30, 2008
  • Awww…those curls were gorgeous. He does look so much more like a big boy now. (((Hugs)))

    Mom24′s last blog post..Summertime and the living is…

    May 30, 2008
  • Oh I remember the fist hair cut, I cried.
    He so adorable, but you’re right he’s not a baby anymore, he’s a little boy now.

    Marye~’s last blog post..Valley of Fire

    May 30, 2008
  • Karleigh

    No more hair. It’s sad, but it was bound to happen. He’s growing up so fast.

    Is he still saying “gite?”

    May 30, 2008
  • Awww! I recently took my daughter for her first haircut too. He looks thrilled with his new do! What a cutie!!

    I’m starting a fun new meme about children on Tuesday. Hope you’ll check it out and consider joining in.

    Have a great weekend, Lotus!!

    Karen of Sillymonkeez’s last blog post..Silly Monkey Stories (Tuesday Meme)

    May 30, 2008
  • Oh my God I’m crying! LOTTUUUSSS!

    I’m going through the same thing with Bear. We’re having pictures done tomorrow and after that I’ll have to get his cut.

    See how much older your baby looks now? (And SO completely adorable btw.) I remember that with Shark, how the first haircut made him such a big boy.

    *Sniff* *Weep* *Sob*

    I’m with ya. We’re wussies.

    Amy @ Milk Breath & Margaritas’s last blog post..A Soaking Shoot ‘Em Up
    Twitter: amy2boys

    May 30, 2008
  • Oh, I cried at every first haircut my kids had! When all the soft, wispy hair starts getting replaced by the thicker, more grown up hair. *sniff* Tissue, please?

    BTW – he’s still a cutie patootie with the short hair!

    SherE1′s last blog post..Where my party, pa’ party party pa’ party people at?

    May 30, 2008
  • I swore I’d never be one of those sappy moms.

    Till I trimmed Alex’s hair for the first time. Ugh.

    Dawn’s last blog post..From the Archives – What Happened to Saturday

    May 30, 2008
  • Eve

    I felt exactly the same way when each of my grandson’s got his first big-boy haircut. All at once they’re grown up – no more babies!

    Eve’s last blog post..Haiku Friday #12

    May 30, 2008
  • Oh he’s so handsome!! I know what you mean about missing the curls, though…I felt that way once my sons hair got snipped. I didn’t realize they’d never grow back!!

    Sarah’s last blog post..Hai-Ku’d You Get Some Common Sense
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    May 30, 2008
  • kim

    How flipping adorable!!! I love it!!

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    May 30, 2008
  • Oh my goodness! He looks so different. But still ever as cute.

    Holly’s last blog post..The crazy lizard stick lady

    May 30, 2008
  • oh I totally understand. I absolutely wept when my son got his first hair cut. He had the most beautiful curls and his hair just shone… but I was apparently the only one who appreciated rather long blond curls on my little boy. Once it was all cut off he looked so much older. I totally get you on this one.

    Tara R’s last blog post..Olivia’s new tricks

    May 30, 2008
  • ahh, the joys of the first haircut
    Mine are teens and I miss that time…
    now they completely freak if I come near their hair

    Insane Mama’s last blog post..Echoing Burps

    May 30, 2008
  • He does have beautiful locks… but he’s just as cute with the cut. Amazing how “grown up” they look after a cut! So sweet!

    Karen MEG’s last blog post..“No Baby” Story – Part I and a Fashion Friday coda

    May 30, 2008
  • Allie

    Crap Lotus, I told myself it was okay to keep my son’s hair long because of Braden’s curls.

    May 30, 2008
  • He looks so cute sitting in that chair !

    May 30, 2008
  • Aw, he looks so cute, and so grown up! I’m glad I had girls, just so I don’t have to make that decision to cut their hair for a long time.

    Although little boys with long hair are adorable, too.

    Christina’s last blog post..Haiku Friday: The Opposite Sex

    May 30, 2008
  • Lotus!! We were SO on the same wavelength (no pun intended). Both kids got their hair cut for the first time THIS WEEK! And the whole time they were cutting Colin’s hair, I thought, “Braden’s hair is longer. Lotus is so strong” LOL It will be tomorrow’s blog post (I think…)

    He looks great! He really does look like a little boy now!

    Tara’s last blog post..Mommy and Me

    May 30, 2008
  • My Brady and your Brandon have the same hair and are the same age. We cut Brady’s hair about 2 weeks ago, and I still do not recognize him.

    melissa’s last blog post..Your Friday Night Movie

    May 30, 2008
  • WAAAAH!
    He is a big boy now!
    Actually, he is still totally a baby. Just one with a haircut and a toothbrush.

    Beck’s last blog post..Thump

    May 30, 2008
  • OMG, could he be any cuter with his new cut? WOWZERS!!!

    janelle’s last blog post..Haiku Friday

    May 30, 2008
  • Oh, my… he looks adorable!! If my little guy had curls, I don’t know if I could have done it, but since he didn’t, he’s probably on his eight or ninth haircut already (and overdue). Since your angel had those beautiful baby curls, I think you’re a brave, brave momma.

    Deb (Missives From Suburbia)’s last blog post..What Do the Animals Say?

    May 30, 2008
  • What a handsome boy. He’s adorable either way… but those baby curls have to be saved, right?

    Donna’s last blog post..Memorial Day 2008

    May 30, 2008
  • Sassy and I wanna see a butt pic w/ the new ‘do!

    A Whole Lot of Nothing’s last blog post..Photohunt: Self

    May 30, 2008
  • Aw, what a sweetie. I think he still looks very much like a baby. Give it a few years, and when he loses those baby cheeks, that’s when we’ll call him a big boy. :-)

    Claire in CA, USA’s last blog post..Parenting

    May 31, 2008
  • Awww..he’s even cuter if that’s possible! Love it.

    Jeanette’s last blog post..Memorial Weekend

    May 31, 2008
  • Alyssa

    That first haircut is so hard. (We didn’t cut my daughter’s hair until she was 31/2!)

    But he looks ADORABLE!!!!!

    May 31, 2008
  • Kristin

    Brought tears to my eyes… I feel the same about my son’s curls… hate it when I have to give him a trim, but they grow back!!! Hubby kept saying that his hair was too long- mullet-like. No way!

    Kristin’s last blog post..Warms My Mommy Heart

    May 31, 2008
  • I know this comment is a bit late but… He really does look so adorable this way. He has always been a major cutie but this really suits him. I can’t wait to see more pix. I bet his gorgeous eyes really pop now ;)

    May 31, 2008
  • I love his haircut, he looks so adorable!

    Christie’s last blog post..changes

    June 01, 2008
  • OH! I love it!
    Love love love little boy haircuts. It’s WAY cute.

    I’m sure it was a very difficult thing to do though.

    Karen’s last blog post..Strummin’ On The Old Banjo…

    June 02, 2008
  • Where is the real Braden and who is this imposter?! Just kidding…the hair cut looks really good on him! :D

    Jared’s last blog post..COSI – An Electrifying Experience!

    June 02, 2008
  • After seeing Cindy Crawfords girl boy hairdo …I have become a fan of “boy” haircuts. This is coming from a woman that had a little boy in the 80s and 90s with a mullet ! ;)

    He is a new little man! He looks like Daddy now! :)

    Kay (Special K)’s last blog post..So many pictures so little time

    June 02, 2008
  • I’m dreading the day I have to get the Poose’s curls cut. I’m thinking we’ll go straight for the buzz cut! And yes, I’ll be bawling and saving little blond curls.
    Don’t worry, as long as he sleeps with his knees under him and his tushie up in the air, he’s still a baby!

    ‘cuz I’m the mommy, that’s why’s last blog post..Apologies

    June 05, 2008
  • He is just a little darling – almost makes me clucky again….
    And so gorgeous with his new big boy hair.

    Trust me it’s no easier when they are 16 and have all of their curls cut off. Only I’m not the only ‘girl’ upset about it!

    I just posted some pics of my son minus his curls – and called it The New ‘Do – and then found your weekly winner pic of Braden!

    G
    xx

    myst’s last blog post..The new ‘Do

    June 08, 2008
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