• river

    We’ll miss you for sure, but you go ahead and take time off whenever you need to for as long as you need to. You and your family come first. I’m a migraine sufferer myself although I don’t get them as severely as others seem to. I can say that taking medication as soon as you notice symptoms helps enormously with lessening the severity of pain and/or dizziness. But since you are pregnant now (woo-hoo) I’d say discuss this carefully and fully with your doctor before you go taking handfuls of panadols or whatever.

    October 10, 2008
  • I’m glad to hear that you are going to be okay. And, for heaven’s sake, put your feet up once in awhile! We’ll still be here. :)

    Walking With Scissorss last blog post..Clicking Her Heels Together

    October 10, 2008
  • big sigh of relief.
    i am plagued by migraines too.
    now as a nurse may i smack that doc up side his head for being like that? seriously, me thinks any sudden visual field disturbance warrants some medical investigatioon.
    glad to see youy are better

    lauras last blog post..a tooth-centric night

    October 10, 2008
  • Raging Dad

    Yeesh, bummer with the migraine. My wife has had two of the ocular migraines, just as you described them except with no pain. Let me tell you though, she practically had a major panic attack the first time. She thought she was dying. I guess it’s pretty common. Hope you don’t get too many of them. Nothing like adding migraines to your already crazy-pregnant self!

    October 10, 2008
  • OMG please don’t post a photo of a hospital wrist bracelet *ever* again without a giant disclaimer ABOVE it saying THE BABY IS FINE READERS! THE BABY IS FINE!


    My heart can’t take it. Okay? Just so you know.

    Oh – hey, we’re born in the same year. Might be why I totally ‘get’ you, and your posts often have me clutching my sides and laughing hysterically. Unless they’re serious of course. In which case, like above, I HAVE A HEART ATTACK BECAUSE YOU FAILED TO REASSURE ME!!!

    Nesss last blog post..WordPress Plugins

    October 10, 2008
  • As soon as you started describing, I started nodding. Been there, done that. It is scary, isn’t it? I’d had migraines for a few years without an aura, but that first floater? I thought I had a detaching retina!

    Rest up, as long as it takes. Your health, your baby’s health? They come first.

    I am so hoping that’s the last one for you. However, if you get more, start taking note. What did you do? eat? Were you outside for a long time, exposed to an allergen?

    I was having 4 to 5 migraines a week. I was taking a TOXIC dose of oral imitrex. We couldn’t figure out what was triggering them. My sister, also a long time migraine sufferer, called me one day. “Try getting rid of Nutrasweet. I did, and I haven’t had a migraine in a week.”

    Believe it or not, several years of nearly daily migraines? Gone. I get maybe 4 or 5 a year. (Close call today, as a matter of fact.) Too many pistachios can also send me running for my injections.

    If it’s hormonal, lets just hope it was a first month aberration and you’re done.

    I’m sorry you’re dealing with them-I wouldn’t wish them on anyone.

    Suzannes last blog post..Monkey Wrench

    October 10, 2008
  • I read somewhere (whilst googling probably) that migraines can show up during pregnancy for some women. Not something you wanted to know, but a possibility.

    And I know exactly how bad you felt. I haven’t had a migraine in a few years, but when I used to get them, if I didn’t lay down and try and sleep, I would vomit and want to die. Not pleasant.

    Veronicas last blog post..What Happens When…

    October 10, 2008
  • I get them monthly. When I was pregnant, at least once a week. For sure, if it reoccurs, note all of the up-to-the-minute stuff. Minimizing foodstuffs and allergens can pretty much get rid of them for a lot of people – if that’s the trigger.

    And yeah, seriously you CANNOT not have a ‘baby is FINE’ banner above a picture of an ER braclet. I almost started crying right away. Don’t make me have to tell you, again, sister.

    Zoeyjanes last blog post..On Waking Up Awesome

    October 10, 2008
  • I got those auras sometimes when I lived in Japan and had no idea why, but half of my body would also go numb so that I was sure my brain was breaking in a deadly kind of way. Sometimes they hauled me to the eye doctor while I tried explaining in bad Japanese and to no avail that it was a vision problem and not an eye problem (explain that in a different language sometime, I dare you). In any case, Google finally is how I figured out that it was a migraine, minus the headache. :)

    I am just glad you are OK and also glad you have good folks nearby enough and willing enough to help. Whew. Still just so glad you are OK and baby, too.

    (Why does your comment love thing keep insisting on pulling a post I did over a week ago and not a recent one? Odd.)

    Maggie’s Minds last blog post..Thursday Thirteen 10/2/08 – 33rd Edition

    October 10, 2008
  • Oi heck, you need to take it easy!

    October 10, 2008
  • wow that kept me captivated the whole way down. I’m glad it wasn’t serious (apart from serious pain).

    de-stress.. everyone will still be here when you’re ready

    Andy Baileys last blog post..I wanted to join Starfleet

    October 10, 2008
  • I get classic migraines and my Mom gets the ocular ones, but she never has any pain. I know how scary they can be. You did the right thing. But…what I really want to know is, whether or not the doctor was cute.

    October 10, 2008
  • I used to get them too – was on imitrex for them for some time. But about 6 months after moving to Thailand I did a major detox and haven’t had one since. Hope never to again as they are absolute debilitating crap! Glad you’re ok and hope you don’t have anymore. :)

    Athenas last blog post..crazy cat outtake

    October 10, 2008
  • I’m glad it wasn’t serious.

    dysfunctional moms last blog post..Thankful Thursday

    October 10, 2008
  • Oh man!

    You absolutely did the right thing going (and it’s AWFUL that you had to consider not going because you don’t have health insurance. Just awful)!

    I’m so glad you are okay. I really hope you don’t get more migraines any time soon. Did he say if there was anything you could take while pregnant? I know there are some drugs out there, but I don’t know anything about that.

    Allisons last blog post..Wordless Wednesday: Babies Can Pull Off Horizontal Stripes

    October 10, 2008
  • I get the migraine portion, but never the auras.

    Some people have all the luck!

    hehe. glad you’re doing better. I basically have to go into dark with super-soft pillows on and under my head and just sleep them off. Not convenient with 2 little ones in any way, shape or form.

    pgoodnesss last blog post..Thursday Thirteen

    October 10, 2008
  • Migraines are such a huge part of my life I don’t give them too much thought anymore. My biggest triggers are smells, especially chemical-ish smells (cleaners, people who marinate in their perfume, …) I’d suggest keeping a diary of what you eat, smell/sense/experience, how much sleep you get … stuff like that every day. It can be a real pain, especially if you don’t get them very often, but finding your triggers should you have them can help you start to avoid them.

    Sometimes I have dizzy/lightheadedness spells for what seems like absolutely no reason. Migraines often follow those spells. I didn’t realize this until going over a ‘diary’ I logged for a few months. I know having no insurance makes it hard to see a doctor regularly but a doctor could help you decipher your diary and manage the migraines. I can’t do pain meds (which means I luv me some ice packs and breathing techniques) so I just deal with them. Hopefully you can find your triggers and avoid them. I wouldn’t wish migraines on anyone.

    n0name28s last blog post..It’s been real

    October 10, 2008
  • Do what you have to do honey! Take care of you and that beanie!! We’ll miss you but we’ll feel better if you are sitting with your feet up and enjoying some mind-numbing television.

    AnnDs last blog post..My dad’s nightstand.

    October 10, 2008
  • I’m glad you are doing ok. Take care and rest more.

    Vicky (Secret Mom Thoughts)s last blog post..Eeeewwwwhhhh!

    October 10, 2008
  • I had my first occular migraine at work 2 days before Christmas when I was 23 (12 years ago). I lost all the vision in the left side of my left eye. It looked like I was trying to look out a wet window on a sunny day.

    I called home to ask my mother what I should do and she said “Go to the ER right now, 2 of your great grandparents died of strokes!” Uh, way to be calm and reassuring there mom. LOL

    I ended up going to my eye doctor who said to avoid chocolate, caffeine, aged cheese, red wine and nuts.

    Rest up and relax and try not to read or look at a computer screen too much.

    Carol Annes last blog post..Thoughts on Love: Kitties on the Mend

    October 10, 2008
  • Anna Ellis

    IM SO GLAD YOU ARE OK!! when I saw your hospital band on flickr I freaked!!

    Im sorry your having to go thru all of this!!

    October 10, 2008
  • I am SO glad by the time I got here to read this the “THE BABY IS FINE” prepend was already in place.

    I am SO glad.

    lceels last blog post..Thursday? Already?

    October 10, 2008
  • So glad you’re okay! Thank goodness.

    Hydes Like Uss last blog post..Like Water

    October 10, 2008
  • I have Aura migraines as well. I’ve only had one bad major one. I had to call my mother-in-law because I was puking courtesy of it. :(

    Good luck!! Now it’s time to figure out the trigger, recognize the signs, and medicate before it gets bad. If you notice it, pop some Tylenol (safe for pregnancy), and either eat some chocolate or drink a caffeine drink (tea, coffee, soda). The caffeine is supposed to help. I’d suggest Excedrin Migraine, but it’s not considered really safe for pregnancy.

    October 10, 2008
  • Very glad you and the baby are ok! Sometimes you just have to take precautions like going to the ER. Even though it sucks.

    I just started getting migraines in July. So it’s fun. But in my googling, I learned that you can get hormonal migraines during pregnancy (or right before/during your period). So maybe once you have the baby, the auras and stuff will stop. (I hope so!)

    In the meantime, I’d say that in addition to paying attention to triggers like n0name28 said, pay attention to how you’re feeling. Once you start to see the pretty colors, it might be time to close your eyes for a minute or dim the lights and pop a movie in or come inside out of the sun or whatever makes you feel better. You might even be able to start to recognize symptoms that happen before you start tripping out.

    Take care of yourself, ok?

    October 10, 2008
  • So glad you are OK. Sometimes paying all those hospital fees is worth the peace of mind we are given in return.

    And hey! Since I could see your birthday on your hospital bracelet… happy birthday 2.5 weeks early! (Cause I won’t remember when the 27th gets here…) My birthday is the 24th!

    Karens last blog post..What? No Comments?!?

    October 10, 2008
  • So glad you are okay.

    But the best part? That you took a photo of your arm band thingy at the hospital. You rock.

    Marcy Writes-The Glamorous Life!s last blog post..Friday Foto Fun

    October 10, 2008
  • Vicky

    I’ve always gotten migraines, especially around my period (cause apparantly that in itself is not bad enough), but when I was pregnant I pretty much had a 12 week migraine. SUCKED big time. I hope as your pregnancy progresses so do the migraines.

    October 10, 2008
  • Vicky

    Ya I’m a tool. I meant to say that as your pregnancy progresses I hope your migraines STOP. Such a tool, sorry about that.

    October 10, 2008
  • feener

    i have gotten the aura a few times. one time at work it got to the point where i felt that drunk feeling and my lips have gone numb twice. i never get pain, but the aura and sense of losing your mind is enough.

    feeners last blog post..Joy

    October 10, 2008
  • Glad to hear everything is going well with the baby.

    Paunchinesss last blog post..Visage A Trois

    October 10, 2008
  • So so happy everything is ok! I was getting worried about you! Take care of yourself and your 2 precious babies!! We will still be here!

    Kristie Nixs last blog post..Diary: Day 5 – A "Day" at the Farm

    October 10, 2008
  • I’m SO glad you & the baby are ok Lotus~that sounds like it’s terrifying to expereince & I can imagine it was intensified now that you’re pregnant. I was scared/worried when I saw the pic of the hospital bracelet though, until I read that the baby was fine (not that I wasn’t worried about you too, but you know what I mean)!

    I get migraines occasionally but not the ones w/the auras. You are so fortunate that you had someone close by that could drive you to the ER & take care of Braden (an angel of God, I agree!).

    Don’t you worry about how much/little time you spend on the computer~we will all be here regardless. You take care of YOU & BOTH BABIES~that’s what’s MOST important right now. When I 1st began blogging a little over 2 years ago, I’d post almost every day during the week & occasionally on weekends. Now I’m lucky if I post once during the week & now I always post on Sundays for Weekly Winners 😉 I lost some readers when I didn’t post as often but my hubby & kids come 1st.

    My point is, your true friends/blogger friends will understand & be there regardless. IF they don’t understand when a little break is needed, then they’re just not human! I happen to be one of those (a blogger friend, I hope 😉 ) that DO understand & will be here regardless. You take all the time you need & take care of YOU, BRADEN & THAT MIRACLE IN YOUR TUMMY :)

    Take care of yourself Lotus :)

    Connies last blog post..Weekly Winners=Sept. 28th thru Oct. 4th 2008

    October 10, 2008
  • Special K

    Ugh Migraines! I am blessed that I at least don’t have THAT problem but my sister does and she said early pregnancy triggered them every time but it seemed to get better as the pregnancy progressed! Here’s hoping yours do the same thing! :)

    October 10, 2008
  • So glad to hear it was just a migrane! Uh, no, that sounds bad…migranes suck. Ha…I just had one of those ‘Hallmark cards that never got made’ jump into my head: “So glad you don’t have a brain tumor!”

    Put your feet up, Lotus! Take care of those bebbies of yours!

    Colleen – Mommy Always Winss last blog post..Forrest Humps & Letters to Santa

    October 10, 2008
  • I’m so glad to hear that you asked for and received help in such a frightening experience. Even though you’re fine I know how scary it can be when it comes to potential brain problems.

    Yes, please de-stress and take some time off. Maybe with the baby and all you can recruit bloggers to guest post for you so that you have a post each day but aren’t spending as much time writing. You do have quite a fan base…myself included.

    Cassandra Raes last blog post..Just Start Where You’re At

    October 10, 2008
  • Definitely understand if you take a day or so away from all you do. Take care of yourself first. The rest of it will keep for ever if necessary!
    And on a less encouraging note — Daughter #3 had migrains the whole time she was preg. with her first child. It was not a fun time for her, or for the rest of us watching her go through such pain. Be sure you let your OBGYN know about this. There is stuff they can give you that can help you and is safe for the baby. I just don’t remember what it was she took. I’m sure you doc will know though.
    My prayers are that you just don’t have any more trouble while pregnant. God bless you.

    Patsy Bains last blog post..Thursday Thirteen #14 Things That Bring A Smile

    October 10, 2008
  • Lottifish

    So glad that you’re okay. I read that whole post while on the edge of my seat really worried about you.

    Relax and don’t stress about blogging of all things. We’re all busy, we understand, and we’ll be here when you do feel like it :)

    October 10, 2008
  • Migraine sufferer here…. my neck nearly always hurts — before, during AND after.

    Margarets last blog post..Cantwadels

    October 10, 2008
  • I looked at the picture without seeing the disclaimer first and had a heart attack. I get terrible migraines and throw up from them. I never got migraines when pregnant though. But migraines are so awful. I am sorry that you had one. Take it easy and take it slow. I am glad that you are okay!

    Jeans last blog post..Jewelry Dictionary

    October 10, 2008
  • I’ve had a few visual migraines. The first one I had was a very pretty rainbow color and my vision was blocked in that eye also. It was very unnerving. I also did not get a headache the first time. I have not had many episodes but all three of my children get them in different ways. My youngest daughter had numbness and tingling in her fingers and the visual stuff with the headaches, my oldest daughter has tininitus and dizziness and headaches, and my son has the visual auras with bad headaches. My two daughters have had MRI’s to rule out other things and been to neurologists. My oldest was prescribed with Zoloft to help hers and it has been working. I hope yours just goes away and doesn’t return.

    Junebugs last blog post..Blue Madness

    October 10, 2008
  • You did the absolutely right thing. I’m so glad you went to the ER to get checked out. And I’m sorry you had to experience such pain and worry. I hope you feel better soon!

    Barbs last blog post..Saying goodbye is the hardest part…

    October 10, 2008
  • that would have scared the holy shit out of me! And I would have wanted to punch the doctor, too :)
    glad you’re feeling better

    Sissys last blog post..Good Enough For Asher

    October 10, 2008
  • During the worst of my migraines my neck hurts too, as does the base of my skull. The first one I had that was that bad I was convinced I had spinal meningitis.

    October 11, 2008
  • I have never heard of neck pain during a migraine. That part seems odd to me. I used to have migraines all the time. Since I started eating gluten free, I have not had one, unless I eat something that has gluten in it. Believe me, I am very cautious about what I eat now.

    Karens last blog post..Project 365 Day 5

    October 11, 2008
  • Holy Cow that is one scary night you had. You need a break girly!! Take all the time you need to destress! WOW! I’m so glad you are ok. Did they give you any meds for those lovely migraines??

    Tiff@Three Peass last blog post..Curried Pumpkin Soup

    October 11, 2008
  • Kat

    Oh, honey! I’m SO glad you’re okay. Glad you went to the hospital too, to set your mind at ease. Alli and your angel seriously ROCK, wow! Its things like that that repeatedly reassure me that all will be well with the world, when people are willing to help like that.

    I used to have the field of vision weirdness too – black and white geometrical patterns over everything and I couldn’t see, same deal. I had it checked out too, but at the time was told it was “nothing” and they basically had no clue, so this was informative! I DID have migraines, and I’d know one was coming within the day when I got this vision weirdness. Although, I also had migraines without the vision thing happening first sometimes.

    I noticed that when I was at work, looking at a particular computer screen under a particular florescent light, it almost always happened. It did happen at other times though, but that was the only trigger I ever was sure of. Its something to watch for, if you notice anything in particular triggering it, it can help to stay away from it.

    It has been a few years since I had a migraine or the vision thing, thankfully!

    Kats last blog post..Think Labor Thoughts

    October 11, 2008
  • Oh Hon! I’m so glad everything is ok. I suffered from migraines off and on in my twenties. When I was pg with my first baby I started getting the ocular migraines in my 3rd trimester. I would get them if I hadn’t eaten in a while and my blood sugar was low. If I was able to suck down a caffeinated soda real fast it would restore my vision.

    Anyway, the migraines were a symptom of pre-eclampsia. Make sure you tell your ob about them and be mindful of the other pre-e symptoms. (and fwiw, my pre-e never effected my blood pressure or proteins until I went into labor and by then it was bad! I had started swelling at 20 weeks though, and my doc never thought it was pre-e related)

    ((big hugs))

    Dawns last blog post..Silence

    October 11, 2008
  • You poor thing! Glad it’s “just” a migraine. I drove a coworker to the ER with one of those, a while back – shoot, I was convinced the woman was having a stroke, and knew she couldn’t see to drive. She’s 12 years younger than me! Scared her, scared me. She was fine, and hasn’t had one since, to the best of my knowledge. I’ve had four migraines – once, I asked the nurse if surgical removal of the head was an outpatient procedure. She laughed, but I was eying my electric carving knife…

    Holly Jahangiris last blog post..Endorphins: Reward for Attending "Boot Camp"

    October 11, 2008
  • I always say “better safe than sorry.” Glad you’re okay now and hope this doesn’t happen again!

    Elaines last blog post..My Recent Zen Moment Ruined (or not!)

    October 11, 2008
  • Tranny Head

    Woah – I’m glad you’re doing ok. What a scare. I hope it never happens again!

    Tranny Heads last blog post..Why Down South is Hawt

    October 12, 2008
  • Alivia

    Hi! I just started to read your blog tonight and I found it interesting because I was just talking to my family about migraines earlier tonight. I don’t know if you have ever heard of EMDR (eye movement desensitization and reprocessing) but according to a few people I know who suffered from migraines. They did EMDR and they haven’t gotten one since. It might be worth a try. Good luck! I hope something helps. I know they are not pleasant.


    October 13, 2008
  • Wow! How very scary. I am so, SO glad to hear you are okay. Take care of you and those babies, k?

    Mrs. Schmittys last blog post..Freaking The Frack Out!!!!

    October 13, 2008

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