Dads Rule

Since I’ve been flitting around - okay, stomping and smashing my way foolishly throughout – this cool bloggy world on the internet, I’ve learned that there are LOTS of Mommy bloggers.  And we are kind of all over the golly place.  We strive to shoot from the hip, be cool, funny and tell it like it is!  We want to be honest, fun, and sincere.  We want to get the message out to everyone what our experience is like.  We’re all, “this sux, but I <3 it!”  Some of us stay at home, some of us work… some have just one (that’s a handful!) and some have multiples.  We all hope to be unique – if that’s still possible with so many of us crowding around the table lately. ;-)   And every one of us (come on, admit it) hope that we reach (lots of) others who can identify with our writings, and enjoy them.

You know what else I’ve discovered?  There are some amazing Dads blogging out there, too.  I mean REALLY amazing.

Let me tell you something.  I always knew that John was going to be a good father.  He is kind and sensitive in a way that, frankly, I am not.  Because of that, I have always been very impressed with his reactions to certain things.  He has a perspective that is always new to me – his heart is gentle at times when mine is rough and ugly.  Even before we had Braden, he made me pause at things like being incredibly concerned about whether the fish was fed the day before.  I didn’t care.  He was worried that the fishie was hungry.  !?  I DIDN’T CARE if the fishie was hungry.  (Yes, I sux.)  It seems silly, but it’s just an example of the way in which his heart is tender and kind.

After Braden was born, John did not disappoint me.  He has been such an incredible father to our son.  He loves that little boy with all his heart and soul.  Over and over again I see him being sensitive, thoughful, loving, and caring in gentle, kind ways to our child.  He amazes me with things like this point of view. Over and over again I see him pushing himself to his limits to provide for us, and longing to be closer to us when he’s far away.  Over and over again he proves that even if he doesn’t do every little thing like I think he should (because, don’t you KNOW that I KNOW EVERYTHING?), he does it just right in his own, loving way.  Braden makes John into a better person every day, and that’s saying a lot, because John was a great person already.  But the love that the son brings out in the father cannot help but make him strive to be better, to do better, to LIVE better.

New Daddy

                              Copycat

                                                   Daddy Feeds

                                                                            Snoozin'

Father's Love

I see these same things in Dads that I hardly know, but read, here on the internet.  Their posts make me laugh, think, and cry because I find them intelligent, touching, sensitive, kind and honest.  They speak in such a way that I can clearly see the way that their children make their lives better.

Have you read them?

On this Thursday my Thirteen things are links to great places to find amazing Dad Bloggers.  Click. Read. Laugh. Cry. Love. Enjoy. Subscribe.

Creative-Type Dad

Cry It Out

Cynical Dad

D is for Dad

Dad Gone Mad

DadThing.com

Joeprah

Make it a Double

Meta-Dad

Mitch McDad’s World

The Busy Dad Blog

The Egel Nest

XBox4NappyRash

PS: There are many more than these that are also great.  It’s always hard to pick a certain number of any type of blogs to list…  Maybe if you read a Dad that you think is awesome, drop a link to him in the comments section, aight? Thanks!

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